My friend picked the name Oliver for her son who is due in a few months. Her DH's coworker just had a boy (they were Team Green) last week and they named him Oliver! My friend is crushed so she and her DH are reconsidering the name because they don't want to "copy" his more senior coworker.

Her DH isn't even close to this coworker and they never hang out or even talk that much at the office! I told her she should just stick with the name she loves but I wonder what I would do if I were in the same situation!

Does a name seem less desirable if a friend or acquaintance uses it first?