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Hubs knows everything about me EXCEPT how I much I share about HIM to my BFF and HB, haha. He'd be mad if he knew how much other people know about our relationship!

I've never hidden anything from him if he asks, however I'm not oversharing anything on past relationships either. We are kidn of a don't ask don't tell in regards to past relationships. I don't want to know who he's been with, and it's likewise for him!

No, he doesn't. I'm not hiding anything huge, but I don't see the need to go over my life history with a fine tooth comb or anything. He doesn't see the need either. In fact, some of what he does know he probably would rather he didn't. I'm a nervous talker

Nope, and I don't know everything about him. We're okay with that as long as they are things we know the other wouldn't want to know. Like his number, I don't wanna know! He is more curious about things I haven't offered than I am. I do think if your partner asks, you should answer honestly unless it's something you really aren't comfortable talking about, in which case I think it's okay to say so. But I don't feel compelled just to tell him everything that's ever happened to me just because we're married.

I have to say no. I'm not hiding anything from him, and he knows more about me than anyone else on the planet. But there are certain things I just don't feel comfortable sharing with anyone truthfully.

I have to admit though, I have been really wanting to talk to him about it, but I just haven't worked up the courage. I know it wouldn't affect our relationship at all.....it's something completely with me.

Yeah, we've been friends since middle school and together for 10 years so there's no secret past for us.

Um... probably? We've been together since we were 18, so... yeah.

@loveisstrange: same! Together since 17, known each other since we were like 12. Doesn't leave a lot of room for the unknown

@Mamaof2: LOL @ your stripper comment. I'm sure your husband about had a heart attack after learning your drug use.

There's SOME things DH doesn't know about me, and it's not that I don't want to share with him. The topic hasn't come up for us to discuss it. When it does, I share.

Nope. We don't talk about our past relationships. I don't want to know how many people he slept with.

Pretty much everything. Inside and out. Anything my memory recalls, he knows. LOL

Not everything. We don't know every detail of each others' past relationships, just a few odd details.

Nope, there are some things better left unsaid (or kept for myself).

Nope, not at all, and we're happy that way!
We're actually totally open about past relationships- I didn't really have any of note (and DH doesn't really have any interest in the ones not of note), and DH's history before me wasn't exactly extensive or sordid, so occasionally I'm curious and ask questions and he has no problem answering.
I can't off the top of my head think of anything that I'd directly lie to DH about if he asked, but there's plenty I don't voluntarily share either because it's not relevant to our lives now and it's embarrassing (like when I cheated on a test in high school) or because DH isn't really into extensive emotional processing or overanalyzing, so he has no interest in hearing my thoughts and feelings on every subject ever (I have friends who indulge me in this instead, much to DH's relief).

@Aimed: tha's similar to us. We met when we were both 30, so we definitely lived a lot before we met each other. I don't think either of us are *ashamed* about our pasts, it's just....water under the bridge. You can't catch someone up on 30 years of your existance.

All the important stuff!

We've been together since I was 17 (he was 18), so we know the majority