Mine doesn't but I'm not sad about it nor am I concerned. Hubs and I were buddies for years prior to dating and now, we're so comfortable with each other and I prefer this feeling. I like that safety and security feeling I have in our relationship.
Does your SO still give your butterflies?
squash / 13764 posts
He does sometimes! I still get the butterfly/excited feeling when I'm meeting him somewhere and I see him waiting for me across the room or across a restaurant 
I also get these moments where I look at his face and I just want to melt. But more often, we have that feeling of comfort/security that you described, which is the best feeling there is
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
Yep! Not every day, but sometimes I still catch myself stealing glimpses of him and "swoooooooooooning" inside 
He's my best friend and rock, but still gives me a rush of feelings which is nice
honeydew / 7504 posts
Yup! Like @hilsy85: said, I get them when I'm meeting him or when I catch him watching me from across the room. A few weeks ago we were at his niece's birthday party and he was playing guitar for everyone - I couldn't take my eyes off of him and probably had the goofiest look on my face. Totally smitten.
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
Yep! Sometimes he looks extra delicious and hunky and he totally gives me butterflies maybe once a week I pat myself on the back for getting him to fall for me so quickly and marrying him hah
Seeing him with our baby gives me warm fuzzies too.
cantaloupe / 6730 posts
I'd say that I get more warm fuzzies and melting as opposed to butterflies. Butterflies to me are anxiety and the unknown while he is anything but!
GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts
Hmmm..I had to think about this. The only time I still get butterflies if I'm dressed up for some reason and I'm excited for him to see me, or we are on a trip and we always seem to be more romantic when away from our daily routines. But they are far and few in between, but that's okay. I would rather be comfortable around him daily!
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
I do still get that rush. It's not everyday anymore though. I've found myself staring at him from across the room a lot lately.
wonderful olive / 19353 posts
Occasionally yes, but like @Rubies: said, I just love the security and trust we have in our relationship.
GOLD / pineapple / 12662 posts
Somedays he sure does! But like pps have mentioned, the best part of our relationship is that I feel completely *safe* with him, and that is the best feeling in the world.
pear / 1837 posts
Nah.
Like @jessiejo17 said, I get excited for him to see me if I'm looking extra good... but I still don't think I'd describe it as butterflies. More like the feeling I get when I've just handed someone a present that I'm proud of having found for them and I'm waiting for them to open it.
But yeah, we're more in the "I feel better/safer/calmer when you're around" than the "you give me the tinglies" category.
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
Yep! Not every day but I do steal glances at him and I just swoon. I still wonder how I got so lucky with him.
coconut / 8854 posts
Umm, not really 
I want it back though. Actually sometimes when he makes dinner for us randomly or just goes out of the way to do something sweet it makes me smile. But otherwise, it kind of feels like we are roommates to be honest :-\
bananas / 9628 posts
yup!! it probably helps that i think he's smokin' hot he can still give me goosebumps when he kisses me, too =)
pomelo / 5073 posts
I do!!!! He works out of town so we see each other every couple of days. I still get excited to see him and he still gives me butterflies.
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