A wedding I'm attending came up super fast and I am having zero luck finding a dress to wear that is not white and is flattering/doesn't require a strapless bra.

I dug this out of my closet an think it might be fine but my bet friend told me she thinks its matronly (I'm 25 FWIW)

Do you think I look like a total slob?? I found a tailor that could hem it above my knees which I think would help but it would be an hours worth of driving back and forth and $30..... I'm sort of leaning towards just wearing it as is.

Help! Also bonus points if you tell me what kind of purse goes with it...