DD1 turned 3 in September. She's never been a great sleeper but has taken good naps for the past year and half or so. Lately she has been saying she doesn't want to take a nap. She will eventually fall asleep for about two hours but not before fighting it first. When she does nap, she's usually up in the night at least once, usuytwice and up for the day fairly early. When she doesn't nap, she is in tears by 530, will fall asleep by 7, but stay in her bed all night long for almost 12 hours. At this point I'm not sure what to do. Shorten her nap? Just let her decide when she's done napping? Drop the nap and prioritize an earlier bedtime? Help!