Seriously. Is anyone actually able to put their baby down: drowsy but awake?!
Both of mine so far; that is just not possible.
Seriously. Is anyone actually able to put their baby down: drowsy but awake?!
Both of mine so far; that is just not possible.
82 votes
pomegranate / 3411 posts
i was able to for about a month or two. can't remember exactly.
coconut / 8483 posts
I almost always did. Sometimes he wasn't quite drowsy. Almost wide awake. Usually after a night feed in the early days he was wide awake. I put him in the RnP and rocked that. During the day id put him in his bouncy chair and bounce that. Eventually I stopped with the rocking/bouncing. He always was swaddled which I think helped signal bed time.
eggplant / 11408 posts
I think it's a myth, or at least it has been until now. We've had one or two times around 5 months that it has been successful, but nothing consistent. It never would have worked with my one month old!
grapefruit / 4311 posts
I voted myth! F is 11 weeks and I can count on one hand the number of times that has succeeded.
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
Not until after we did some sleep training. I thought surely it was a myth until I watched my friend look at her baby and say, oh you look sleepy, time for a nap.., then put the baby down in his crib and walked away. And he went to sleep. I just stared as long as my crying squirmy baby would let me.
So I suppose it happens but I don't think it's the norm!
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
@runnerd: before we sleep trained I can count on one finger how often it happened.
cantaloupe / 6171 posts
Like, 4 times in the past 6 months, and all within the last week or so. She has to be really, really tired-- it's mostly worked motn
grapefruit / 4213 posts
Um, no. My baby thinks sleep is for the weak so every nap and bedtime is an ordeal to say the least. Drowsy but awake doesn't happen in my house.
pomegranate / 3314 posts
LO didn't go for it naturally, but sleep training improved things quite a bit.
apricot / 456 posts
Before sleep training, it was pretty rare (we sleep trained at 11 weeks). After sleep training, we put her down in her crib awake every single time she goes down for a nap or bedtime. I can't remember the last time she was asleep or even almost asleep when we put her down last. She's always awake, and she'll play with her toys, kick the crib, or fuss a little bit for ten minutes or so. Then she's out.
I honestly think if I waited until she was nearly falling asleep, she'd be really grouchy and fight sleep more. But who knows. Babies are weird.
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
We almost always did, but Xander just liked being left alone to fall asleep and that's probably not normal!!
pomelo / 5228 posts
I can get it to work, but it is unpredictable. Sometimes yes, sometimes nope, nice try!
persimmon / 1458 posts
@MapleMoose: glad my children aren't the only ones, well not glad for you but I'm commiserating with you!
persimmon / 1339 posts
Since sleep training it's the only way he'll go down - if I try to rock him in my arms, he squirms and fights, if I put him down & he's due for a nap or sleep and has been through the pre sleep routine, he rolls around a few times & goes to sleep. Before sleep training, the exact opposite. It was life changing!
GOLD / wonderful coffee bean / 18478 posts
I didn't try it right away with DD1, but I did with DD2 and it worked!
pomegranate / 3388 posts
For us, it was probably like 7 months before this became a reality at bedtime... and 1.5 years before drowsy yet awake worked at naptime. The good news is, you know you won't be rocking your child to sleep forever.
papaya / 10343 posts
Sigh. I lived the dream and now it's dead.
When my LO was around 7 or 8 weeks old we started doing naps in her bassinet. One time I swaddled her up and stuck her in there and left her to take a shower thinking okay-- she's safe. Hopefully she doesn't scream and maybe she'll even fall asleep. And she did. So the next nap I set her down again-- and she did. And from then on, every single nap and bed time we just swaddled her up, set her down, put her paci in, and walked away. And she fell asleep on her own. EVERY TIME. I could do it, my husband, my mom... she didn't care. She'd yawn, we'd wrap her up an set her down-- boom! It was unbelievably awesome.
And then the sleep gods took it away from us around 13 weeks or so. Tonight I rocked her while she screamed at me for 45 min before bed (she's 20 weeks). Sooo yea. I know it's possible. And the knowing it is possible almost makes it worse to not have it I think? We are planning to sleep train soon because I know she's capable-- we just need to get back there.
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
With DD I nursed to sleep so she didn't start sleeping unassisted until she was 21ish months old. ftm fail.
DS started sleeping on his own really early on. Most nights when I was soloing, I would put him under his play mat thing and do DD's bedtime routine. When I was done, I'd come back to a sleeping baby.. I started putting him down drowsy but awake early on.. Memory is foggy, but at around 5-6 weeks. Maybe earlier.
honeydew / 7230 posts
So I came back to say I was proven wrong tonight! I put Blake in his rock n play while I put away some laundry. When I got back to him he was like this - asleep, naked, clutching his sleepsack, haha.
pineapple / 12793 posts
@twodoghouse: Blake is really starting to chub out! Look at those thighs!
pomegranate / 3565 posts
I voted mythical. DS2 has fallen asleep on his own maybe 3 times in his 2 year old life. DS2 has done it about three times in his 4 month old life. I have no idea how drowsy but awake works.
pomegranate / 3113 posts
Maybe 30% of the time? It seems to work better at bedtime than for naps, though.
pomelo / 5073 posts
If she isn't teething, then yes, she goes down drowsy,but still awake. However, this is only after sleep training and after she was Six months old.
pineapple / 12053 posts
Once she found her fingers to suck on at 4-5 months, I realized I was keeping her up by rocking her. I set her down one night and she passed out on her own. Has done it since.
bananas / 9118 posts
It depends on the day, occasionally it works. Rarely with my first, more often with my second.
blogger / pomegranate / 3044 posts
I've prided myself that I could put both DS1 and DS2 in the crib awake enough that they would wave goodbye, and they would sleep.
In desperate situations I would rock them to sleep, but "drowsy but awake" was always the plan.
kiwi / 603 posts
Yes we were able to achieve this but it wasn't until around 5 months. I was initially skeptical but it's really all about timing.
blogger / grapefruit / 4836 posts
We started from birth and it has always worked for us. We would change his diaper, swaddle, and then put him in his crib or the swing (for naps) and he went to sleep on his own. He was a preemie though and was always sleepy for the first month. I think by the time the sleepiness wore off he was used to going to sleep this way.
blogger / coconut / 8306 posts
With Chloe, hell no. She's almost three and sleep is a constant battle.
Charlotte likes her sleep. I can set her down & she can put herself to sleep most of the time.
I like Charlotte.
I like Chloe too, but... Charlotte sleeps. I'm just sayin.
pomegranate / 3983 posts
With my first I was able to do it and I keep trying to remember how because I just can't with my second!
cantaloupe / 6669 posts
After sleep training (a few times) my 11 month now will lay down in her crib, snuggle up and fall asleep. It's pretty cute & I am always pinching myself because she has been such a bad sleeper.
This is only for bedtime. We still deal with night wakings to some extent & we have failed at nap training so I rock/nurse her to sleep for naps unless we are on the go (she is a pro car sleeper) or she's at school.
@Mrs. Jump Rope: This is my hope and dream for #2 if we are ever brave enough.
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