There's been a few times where a fellow HBer will post something incredibly sad (like a loss) and I just won't feel like posting on any threads.
Sometimes the news is so devastating that I feel like I'm giving them a (online) moment of silence while they are going through their thing.
Like anything I post will make it seem like a regular day but the person with the sad news is going through so much grief.
I'm sure they have no idea that I'm doing this but this is what I do.
Hugs to anyone out there that is going through a tough time!