When DH and I started TTC, we had a few discussions on # of kids, and I thought we were on the same page that we would most likely be one-and-done. We both feel very strongly that if we cannot provide the same kind of financial support for a second child, we would not have him/her. We aren't struggling per se, but day care expenses are going to put us in a budget crunch for the next four years or so, and honestly, I don't think I'll want to go through another 4 years after that if we had kid #2!

So basically, we were on the same page,.... until we went for a walk the other night and he tells me to save my maternity clothes *just in case.* This really threw me and I asked him to clarify what he meant. He sort of jabbered on about how accidents happen and how we might feel differently after LO gets here, and I'm basically staring at him with this big WHAT on my face, because even if we want kid #2, our bank account won't! And I thought that was something we came to terms with.

So I'm sorry that was so long, but my basic question is, how did you and and your SO get on the same page for # of kids, and if you didn't, did one of you compromise? I think it's adorable that he has baby fever again (while I'm still pregnant, mind you!), but I feel very strongly that I only want one!