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I have! My cousin is getting married this year in July. I am 8w pregnant and not ready to tell family yet, so I just politely declined. The dress she chose would not work for a 25 week pregnant belly anyway. It's a very fitted Vera wang gown.

Yes. But it was after I had already accepted and only because her wedding and my wedding were like a month apart.

Well, also partly because I could feel we were "drifting" a bit.

Yes, for my SIL actually, but it was because DH was asked to be a groomsmen and since it was his sister, we felt it was more important for him to be in the wedding party, as well as the fact that I was nursing. LO was 5 months at the time and one of us needed to be with her.

No. I've only been in two weddings though.

Yes, wedding was week from my due date, ended up having DD the morning of the wedding!

...sooooort of? My cousin asked me to be the photographer for her wedding. She asked 4 days after I found out I was pregnant, and the wedding is 2.5 months after I'm due (across the country). I was really torn because I'd have loved to do it but the idea of traveling with a newborn and juggling that worried me, especially since I'd only had 4 days to get used to the idea of HAVING a newborn. I ended up telling her no, telling her why, and swearing her to secrecy. Turned out for the best because the wedding is on a mountain and I didn't know you can't take babies that young to that altitude?

I've never even been asked before! Some of my closest friends aren't married or engaged yet.

Nope; I haven't been in too many weddings so everyone of them I was really close to the bride!