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I have done neither so I won't give you advice there - but my one recommendation would simply be to meet her first. I'd hate for you to get your heart set on using her, convince your husband, and then meet her and not "click". Good luck!

Since you have some very strong feelings about how you want your birth to go, it would make sense to have someone hired specifically to advocate for your wishes and help you achieve the type of birth you desire. I would meet with this doula but also see a couple of others in a lower price point to help get your DH on board.

I paid 1k for my doula (and I interviewed 2 other doulas who were $350 and $500) and she was worth every penny. I ended up having to transfer from a birth center to the hospital but I felt like I needed her even more!

It's really important to meet with the doula and then decide. All of our doulas looked amazing on paper, but our decision came down to personality and who I felt would be most supportive of both me and my husband.

We are paying $700 for our doula. Looks like yours includes a birthing course that you want, so I don't think its an awful price at all.

But I agree - it's best to find someone you are totally comfortable with and who matches your personalities. It's also great to start the conversations early, so your husband can have some time to understand and think about it. His role will still be important!

That sounds like a good price for all that you are getting. I interviewed doulas in the US charging that much and they include less services. Best of luck!

Taking a hypnobirthing course was absolutely worth the money to me. Getting the best shot at the birth you want is worth pretty much any amount of money, in my opinion. If that's worth trading for a month off work, I think it's reasonable.

We paid our doula $800 for two prenatal visits (not including the free meet-and-greet), unlimited phone calls (which honestly I don't think we used), 1 post-natal follow-up, and the actual birth (when she spent about 16 hours with us). We live in a big city so that seemed like a fairly standard price.
DH is actually a much bigger proponent of doulas now than I am... I liked our doula a lot, but I don't remember her doing all that much- I mainly remember relying on DH. But DH says that he was really glad she was there, and I actually think it's kind of ideal that she supported him so he was able to support me.
It's not uncommon to see intensive hypobirthing or Bradley class series run a couple hundred dollars here in the US, so I think- at least in US standards- the price is pretty good for what you're getting.

That said, if you're having a home birth attended by two midwives, I'd honestly expect them to be able to do a lot of what the doula might otherwise do. If they're at your home, it's not like they have other patients to attend to, so I'd expect them to be pretty involved with helping you with pain management (changing positions, breathing, whatever). Though they may not be versed in hypnobirthing, so if you are set on that, you may need the doula for that.
I'd also consider how helpful your DH may be... if he's willing to read hypnobirthing books and listen to CDs and study on your own together, and he's willing to coach you through it using the techniques you want, the doula mightn't be necessary.

My two cents doesn't really count as I haven't delivered yet but the doula we have hired has been super helpful with any information/questions we've had so far - I think it is important to meet with her to make sure you're a good 'fit'. After we met with our Doula it was a no brainer, my DH wanted to sign the papers right then and there! He loved the fact that she's there to support him as well.

We are three classes into our HypnoBirthing course and are absolutely loving it so far!! I think it will definitely be helpful in labor and delivery, although it will really depend on how much practice you put into it before hand and how good you become with self hypnosis. It gives a specific job to your DH/partner and my DH has really liked that aspect of it.

I think the value of having a doula would also depend @lozza said, if you are having two midwives attend your birth. We felt we needed to have a doula because we weren't able to get a Midwife.

We paid $650 for our Doula and $300 for our HypnoBirthing class so in my opinion its pretty on par. That being said if we wanted the birthing pool it would be extra - but our hospital doesn't allow it anyways!