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I totally get this. It's hard too because men just don't stress about things. And if your husband is like mine they are "fixers". I used to complain to my husband about concerns about getting pregnant. And now that I am (just barely!) I complain to him about my concerns about symptoms and what if something is wrong. He just tells me not to worry and he's sure everything will be just fine. And it makes me sooo mad! I know that he's just more relaxed and that's a good thing. But when he responds like that it makes me feel dismissed. I want him to back me up when he thinks he just needs make me not worry. It can be tricky : ) Hang in there and just have really open communication with each other!

You are definitely not alone in this. TTC is soooo emotional. And sometimes I feel like nobody else except those that are going through/have gone through the TTC journey know the right thing to say. It's almost like uncharted territory, this limbo of worry, but trying-not-to-worry, of being concerned as to why it didn't happen right away, but not openly admitting to it for fear of jinxing yourself, etc. What I'm trying to say is, I know how you feel! Now that you finally vented to your husband your feelings, I am sure that he will be more supportive of your emotions in this process. I'm glad you were able to vent here, too! So helpful, these boards.

Aww.. hang in there and know that you have us too!

Def understandable. Like everyone else has said you are not alone!!!

you aren't alone, I'm having the same job issues and I tend to get tense with the whole TTC thing!

I do that to, hold everything in and then of course blow up at my husband. Usually when I have my period. And as much as I know it's stupid and I need to communicate with him, I still do it. Maybe you can try to find something less stressful to focus on, like redecorating a room. Hope you're feeling better!

Trust me you are NOT alone in this at all. I had a cry on the phone with my mom the other day because I haven't ovulated yet this month.

I do talk to my husband about it, but I don't think he quite understands the emotional rolleroaster it really is. I know he wants a baby, but I don't think he feels the frustration that I'm feeling. My mom told me I need to distract myself and shift focus to something else. I do have a lot going on right now in my business so that should help. I'd suggest you try and find something to distract yourself. I know what it's like to hate your job too! Maybe put your energy towards finding a new job?

Totally not alone. I had TTC breakdowns, too, most of them directed at my poor husband.