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How do you handle door to door evangelists?

  1. meredithNYC

    pomegranate / 3314 posts

    I'm usually nice to them, but admittedly I don't get many in the Northeast (the Midwest was a different story). I was once told that they would go away if you tell them that you're Jewish, so that's what I do. When I was honest and told them I'm Catholic they tried harder with the conversion.

  2. MamaJ

    pear / 1609 posts

    I don't answer the door if I am home alone. DH will answer and say he is not interested.

  3. loveisstrange

    pineapple / 12526 posts

    @TemperanceBrennan: same!

    DH is a formerly Catholic atheist and I'm a secular humanist, I generally just listen, be respectful, and politely tell them I don't participate in organized religion. I've never had one harass me or come back.

  4. PawPrints

    pomegranate / 3658 posts

    @Littlebit: This story makes me think of the beginning of Home Alone when Joe Pesci comes into the house pretending to be a cop and nobody notices him because everyone is running around going crazy.

  5. mrs. bird

    bananas / 9628 posts

    eh. they make me wish i had a dog, a big, loud, scary dog. where we are now, it's better because we have an intercom system & i can simply say, 'i wish you all the best with your god, but i'm all set. thanks, and please don't come again.' then i don't hit the 'listen' button again to hear their reply. i don't care what your religion is, that's between you & your god and if i wanted to know more, i'd ask. more often than not, i don't. if i went door to door trying to spread atheism, i'd get hit, but somehow it's okay for certain groups to go around rubbing their religious beliefs in your face, arguing incessantly attempting to convert you. the worst is when they have kids with them. i don't think you should show disrespect or undermine what a parent is teaching their child, but if you bring your kid door to door and start religious arguments with people, it's only fair to expect that the kid is going to hear some less than positive ideas about the beliefs your attempting to shove down people's throats.

    can you tell i had a lot of people come to my home attempting to convert me in the past?? i am not a fan.

  6. TheSwissWifeStyle

    nectarine / 2600 posts

    When I lived in NJ I made the mistake one time of opening the door. I don't remember how I dealt with it, but it was probably awkward. After that I just stopped answering. I don't think it happens here at all.

    But reminds me of a funny story my ILs like to tell. I forget where they were living at the time, but apparently my FIL opened the door, and when whoever was at the front door said they were spreading the message, he flat out says "We already got the message!" And shut the door on them! Makes me chuckle.

    I don't like being bothered at home, be it at the door or on the phone!

  7. Penny Lane

    nectarine / 2163 posts

    I answer the door, listen, take their pamphlet and say thanks. I don't see any reason to be rude about it, listening for a few minutes doesn't hurt me in any way! granted, I've never had anyone rude or pushy come, so maybe that would change my mind fwiw, @mrs. bird: I would totally listen just as politely if someone came knocking and wanted to "convert" me to atheism!

    I've never gone door to door, but DH and I are Mormon, so when he was 19 he spent his two year mission door knocking and "converting" in the Ivory Coast!

  8. MCD919

    kiwi / 659 posts

    I don't answer the door if it's just me at home.. Not sure if we've had any or not, but I don't think I'd have much patience to listen.

  9. MsLipGloss

    GOLD / pineapple / 12662 posts

    ETA: On second thought, nevermind. Just this:

    Part 1: http://parentingbeyondbelief.com/blog/?p=6285

    Part 2: http://parentingbeyondbelief.com/blog/?p=6325

  10. mrs. bird

    bananas / 9628 posts

    @MsLipGloss: you often post enjoyable things, but that was my very favorite! thank you

  11. SugarplumsMom

    bananas / 9227 posts

    I feel bad taking their literature because we're not religious. I tell them we're not interested, but wish them a good day. I respect their dedication and efforts.

  12. mrsjyw

    GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts

    I open the door and say no thank you. They came by once or twice after that when we first moved in, haven't since!

  13. MsLipGloss

    GOLD / pineapple / 12662 posts

    @mrs. bird:

  14. HLK208

    pineapple / 12234 posts

    I tell them I'm Catholic. We only get Mormons that keep coming but the JW's stopped.

  15. mrsjazz

    coconut / 8234 posts

    I used to like to mess with JW's and tell them that I was disfellowshipped. They would definitely leave me alone because they can't talk to people who have been disfellowshipped. Now I just tell them not interested. I would say that I'm not the friendliest to JW's because I know they will come back (hey, I used to have to go door to door as a child when I was a JW, I know how it works!)

    At our current apartment we've had someone come from the church near us and I've taken their information but that was it. We also had some Chabad guys knock on my door asking if we were Jewish, but it's not the same since they were specifically looking for Jewish people only. I told them no and they left.

  16. mediagirl

    hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts

    We have a No Soliciting sign outside (very small and unobtrusive). If we open the door and it's a solicitor, I point at the sign and say we don't accept visitors who we don't know and shut the door.

  17. babynumber1

    persimmon / 1396 posts

    @grizz: We actually have a sign that says - No Solicitation - Unless you sell thin mints!

    We were getting tons of door to door salemen and JW right at LO's nap time. It was driving me crazy, so we got our awesome sign and it is wonderful.

  18. MrsSCB

    pomelo / 5257 posts

    I've never had someone just show up at my door, but I wouldn't really appreciate it. I'm a pretty introverted person and people showing up without warning feels very intrusive to me. If I were alone I probably just wouldn't answer the door if I was not expecting someone. If DH were home, I'd let him handle it.

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