It's been a long time since I've popped up on here, so glad to see folks are still around. Would love opinions on a situation I'm dealing with some friends who are devoted churchgoers. We are not at all religious, which our friends know. However, they still periodically invite us to their church. It's happened a couple times over the years and usually around big events their church was doing so we always just said thank you but we can't make it. However, yesterday, one of the kids who my daughter is closest to, handed her an invitation. When we opened it this morning, it was a handwritten invitation from the girl to my girl to come to church with them. Not a special event, just regular services. The mom, who I talk to daily, didn't mention this to me. My daughter kind of shrugged and said she'll ask her friend about it (though I honestly think she might just forget), however, I'm really not sure how to handle this. I'm fine saying no to invitations but this feels different. I don't want to hurt my friend's feelings but I've said in the past that church and religion is not for us so now that this has shifted into beyond just special/community events, it feels more intrusive. Am I overthinking this? Is there a way to handle this that isn't going to jeopardize the friendship? Or does this now start to tell me something about the friendship itself? Would appreciate perspectives. Thanks!