Over the weekend, Hubs and I had a misunderstanding about my cutting his hair, and I ended up not cutting it the way he wanted to. Instead of acknowledging that we BOTH had made assumptions, he treated me like an idiot!!!

He apologized later once he had calmed down, but it does feel like his initial response to these misunderstandings is to assume he's in the right and I'm either a moron or did something on purpose to upset him!

How do you and your SO handle misunderstandings?