When we were engaged we didn't plan on having kids for a few years. Then my post-college ed/career moves/plans changed and we both got the fever after our first anniversary, we started ttc a few months later!
When we were engaged we didn't plan on having kids for a few years. Then my post-college ed/career moves/plans changed and we both got the fever after our first anniversary, we started ttc a few months later!
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
When we got married (age 25/26), we agreed to wait until we were 28 to start trying, and we stuck to it! I got baby fever earlier, but we kept to our original schedule because we had other travel plans.
nectarine / 2272 posts
We were together 7 years when we got married, then started ttc when we were married almost three years. Decided on adoption when we were married almost 4 years.
cantaloupe / 6791 posts
We were married for about 8 months when we started TTC, but we'd been together for almost 6 years.
pear / 1558 posts
We waited ~6 mos after we married so that we knew my place was sold before ttc. In retrospect we could easily have started ttc right away & still have had things work out since it took us a while to get pg.
grapefruit / 4361 posts
We were together for 7 yrs, married for 4 when we started TTC. I was 26 and he was 27. It was about 2-3 years before our original *financial* timeline dreamt up back in our dating years, but it was 100% in line with our desired timeline discussed throughout dating and early marriage.
nectarine / 2086 posts
We met 10 years ago, married 3 years ago. We always said we wanted to have our first baby when I was 30. I turned 30 in June and I'm due next month! So it all worked out, although we started trying about a year sooner than planned bc my MIL got a fatal cancer diagnosis. Took about a year to get pregnant though.
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
We had been together a long time before we got married (6+ years) but agreed to wait about two years before ttc after the wedding. I got baby fever before that but we stuck to the plan.
We wanted to be married for a little bit before baby, but didn't want to wait too too long since we wanted two and weren't super young.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
We'll be married 5.5 years when the baby is born. We started trying during our second year of marriage though. If things had gone like we originally planned we would have had a baby after our second anniversary.
grapefruit / 4418 posts
Planned to ttc ~6 months after our wedding. Got pregnant 2 months after instead. Not ideal given my husband had just lost his job, but it all worked out! He our DD a month before our first anniversary (and on our engagement ann'y!) it was a whirlwind relationship. Met in 2011, engaged in 2012, married in 2013, baby in 2014!
pomegranate / 3863 posts
We knew we wanted to have kids soon after marriage, we waited 9ish months
grapefruit / 4712 posts
We were together six years before we married. We started Ntntp right away. We were pregnant in less then 6 months into our first year of marriage.
blogger / watermelon / 14218 posts
We waited just over 3 years before we started trying. We had our first after 4 years, 2 months of marriage.
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
We waited 17 months. We probably would have waited a min of 2 years if we were younger.
honeydew / 7230 posts
We started trying 3 years into our marriage, but it was nearly our 6 year anniversary by the time our twins arrived.
coconut / 8861 posts
Started trying 2 years after getting married. At that point, we'd been together for 7 years. We had LO 1 a few months before our third anniversary.
pear / 1593 posts
We were married 4 years before we started trying (together 9); little one arrived a few months before are 6 year anniversary.
pear / 1770 posts
We were married for a year when we started trying. That's a faster timeline that I had ever anticipated, but DH is 12 years older than me so we had to speed things up a bit.
pomegranate / 3845 posts
We got a bfp a few days before our first wedding anniversary we were together nearly 5 years by the time LO arrived.
cherry / 154 posts
@mrsjyw: 5 years, almost on the dot! I'll be 8 weeks on our 5th year anniversary
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
We dated for 7 long years. Then waited just a year to get pregnant.
nectarine / 2115 posts
@mrsjyw: We were 25/27 when we married, and had planned to wait 5 years. We told all of our family that, so they wouldn't bug us about it! Then 2.5 years in we changed our minds and started TTC. It took us longer to conceive than we had expected, so I am so glad we didn't wait 5 years before starting!
persimmon / 1071 posts
@mrsjyw: We've been married for 6 months this month. We wanted to be baby free for at least a year to enjoy being with each other. About 2 months ago I went off of BCP. We're currently NTNP, I go in and out of baby fever, but we'll hit our 1 year anniversary baby free.
We're both looking forward to baby though.
pomelo / 5298 posts
We planned to wait one year. We started TTC at about 9 months and I was pregnant one month after our 1st anniversary. In a perfect world we would have waited longer, but we got married late.
coconut / 8279 posts
We were together 10+ years before getting married and having a baby. We got married in January 2011 and had a baby by December!
clementine / 903 posts
We met in high school. Dated for 5 years before getting married. Married about 6.5 years before trying for kids. Will be married about 7.5 years when LO1 is born in September. I'm 30 and DH is 29. We always said we'd wait until age 28 to try, so we aren't THAT far off. And we're happy we waited. We enjoyed our years together, and that time went by really fast.
pear / 1622 posts
We didn't wait once we got married. At our age, we decided to go for it
watermelon / 14206 posts
My ex and I had D 3 years after we got married. I had some fertility issues back then. DH and I got pregnant with S 9 months after we got married.
persimmon / 1281 posts
We started TTC right after our 1 year wedding anniversary (together for 4 years at that point). We got pregnant right away. I wouldn't have minded waiting a bit longer but DH is older then me and wanted to start quickly.
kiwi / 735 posts
We will be married for 5 years when our first is born. We married young and struggled with infertility, I feel good about how it worked out.
eggplant / 11408 posts
We waited 2.5 years, or enough time for me to finish my M.A. and move to a more family-friendly city/university. I had the fever much earlier, though!
pomelo / 5678 posts
I wanted to be married for 2 years before we stopped actively preventing. I also hoped to have my first before 30. I was blessed with both!
cantaloupe / 6669 posts
We were married for about 3 years when we got pregnant. We had planned on waiting a little longer. DH used to always tell people, "3-5 years," when they asked when we thought we'd have kids. He started saying that when we got married and kept saying it even 3 years later, haha! Glad we got our awesome surprise
pear / 1616 posts
we got married young so we waited about 5.5 years! i wanted to start sooner, DH wanted to start later, so we met in the middle. and im' glad we had the kids when we did! we got to have alot of adventures as the two of us but still on the young side for kids!
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
we waited 2 years, but it took 2 years to get pregnant with charlie.
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