204 votes
persimmon / 1194 posts
3 hopefully if I can convince DH, possibly 4 if we don't go crazy after 3 ;P
persimmon / 1177 posts
Would love 3, but it really depends how soon we're ready for #2 after this one (I'm 14 weeks right now), and how long it takes to get pregnant with #2.
blogger / pomelo / 5361 posts
Well, we're on track for the "3" that I voted. We both love the idea in theory of 4, but I just don't think that will happen. I'm too old and tired...but maybe that's just the tail end of the first trimester talking. If we do go for #4, It will be when the boys are in school or something. Mama needs a break.
pomegranate / 3980 posts
We really don't know, we are obviously already having 3 but we will see how things go after this one, I think we will likely have anot her but who knows
eggplant / 11824 posts
We are happy with 1. I like devoting my whole self to her, and our family feels complete.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
One and done biologically. Hoping to adopt two many years from now!
papaya / 10473 posts
I don't know. We have one. DH wants another. I would be fine if we didn't. We're both open to adoption. Sooooo..... yeah
kiwi / 687 posts
I voted 4, as that's what we imagine as ideal, maybe more. We hope for at least 3. LO#1 is a newborn now and our feelings haven't changed but I did have a cesarean and worry about complications from lots of repeat surgeries. If #2 is a VBAC, that will help us feel safer about having more pregnancies. I'm also open to adoption, but DH has hesitations about it.
honeydew / 7504 posts
Pretty sure we're one and done. If someone could guarantee me that my next pregnancy, labor, delivery, and baby could be as easy as D has been, then I'd be more open to 2.
grapefruit / 4028 posts
I'd like to have 4.
Depending on if fertility treatments are needed or if we need to adopt will dictate how many we end up with.
nectarine / 2834 posts
I'd like to have 4, DH wants 3. However, coming off of our 2nd loss I'll just take what I can get.
pear / 1639 posts
2...maybe 3? My crazy self wants twins next because that might be the only way we have 3!
nectarine / 2771 posts
Two biological, and then we plan to be foster parents, and we hope we'll be able to adopt at least one, possible two, of our future foster children.
kiwi / 643 posts
Just our twins. I have twinges of wanting more, but I know that our hearts and family are full and perfect. I'm scared to tempt fate. We wouldn't do IVF again and donated all our remaining embryos to research. Currently we're on BCP's (which I hate) and DH is planning a vasectomy in the next year. I have mixed feelings about it but know in my heart that it's the right call.
cherry / 149 posts
We originally wanted 2, but now I'm thinking I'm totally fine with just 1. If we have another it won't be for several years.
nectarine / 2591 posts
I want 3 but we agreed to 2 before TTC and financially 2 is what we can afford. So 2 it will be.
pomegranate / 3577 posts
We're likely two and done, but an "oops" would be welcomed! I could see us adopting later.
cherry / 156 posts
We have always said two biologically and if we want more, adopt. (I voted 2 and am currently pregnant with LO#2 right now.)
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