I started a new job as a FT nanny a couple of months ago, and I love it! I'm curious to know how many other nannies (or former nannies) there are on here
I started a new job as a FT nanny a couple of months ago, and I love it! I'm curious to know how many other nannies (or former nannies) there are on here
nectarine / 2636 posts
I nannied my 2 nieces for a couple years. I only just stopped since I'm having my own baby soon! I also worked in a private preschool before that. I spent 2 years in the 2.5-3 year old room. That was an experience.
bananas / 9628 posts
Nanny here! I went part time this fall. I love having so much freetime, but I miss my long, full days with my littles (and my full time paycheck, I miss that too! )
grapefruit / 4649 posts
I am a nanny! I have been doing it for most of my adult life except three years that I taught. I love my job!
honeydew / 7687 posts
Nannied in college and sporadically in between professional jobs when we moved!
grapefruit / 4089 posts
I figured there would be more than a few of us kicking around!
coconut / 8475 posts
I was in college. It wasn't a formal arrangement with paid holidays or time off...it was more lax than that because the lady I worked for was just volunteering at her kids school, studying for her boards and doing other things which didn't give her a super rigid schedule. I loved it and the money was good!!!
grapefruit / 4649 posts
Can I semi thread jack? I know a lot of you have lo's of your own now, I just found out this week that we are expecting our first. How have you found motherhood as compared to being a nanny, especially if you were with the family for a long time?
grapefruit / 4089 posts
@Cole: Thread-jack away! I have no kids of my own yet so I'm no help, but I wanted to say congratulations!! So exciting
kiwi / 649 posts
@cole- I don't have any kids of my own but I imagine it will be a lot easier. You already know what parenting style works for you (hopefully your husband agrees) and you're able to make the rules. When you're a nanny sometimes you have to do whatever your boss wants even though you disagree with it. I think it will be a lot easier.
kiwi / 649 posts
@cole- I'm also sure you will still have a special bond with your long term families.
hostess / cantaloupe / 6486 posts
I was a nanny for 3 years before DD was born in September. I still have a great relationship with my last family.
@Cole: it's helped a lot! I find I'm much more calm when my LO cries because I know I can figure out what's wrong. I know what I do want to do with her & what I don't. It's definitely different with your own LO but I definitely feel like I've had an advantage compared to other first time moms
nectarine / 2132 posts
i nannied for a few years after college.
@Cole: while nannying gave me a lot of experience and has given me ideas of what to expect, i feel like it also set me up to be a little over confident. especially because i nannied for a newborn so i had a kind of "i got this" attitude but in reality nannying for a newborn and being a parent to a newborn are completely different things (obviously. it just didn't click until after a few nights of no sleep )
that's probably not even what you were asking, but just my experience.
blogger / grapefruit / 4836 posts
@jmarionsmith: Yes! This! I didn't read a single book until after lo was born because I just assumed I knew what I was doing. The shock of realizing I didn't have a CLUE was completely unexpected and hit me like a ton of bricks those first months.
kiwi / 550 posts
*raises hand* I just moved to part time with the 16 month old I care for. I have another job and going to school but I'm not ready to give up being his nanny! I love it.
cherry / 132 posts
I worked as an au pair for a year before starting university, for a family with 4 kids, a 16 year old, 15 year old, 3 years old and 6 month old. To be honest I didn't really have much to do with the baby, I mainly looked after the 3 year old and took the older kids to school ect.
I loved it, and my family was great, but I don't think it's done much to prepare me for having kids on my own.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
Here! I have done live-out, live-in, FT and PT, and did so for about 5-ish years.
@Cole: firstly, congrats on the BFP! Secondly, it is worlds different. A huge reason I loved being a nanny is because I could experience loving children, their love returned, and the joys that being with a child during the day can bring - but at the end of the day I could give them back to their parents, and then relax do my own thing. I could go out with friends, stay out late and sleep in on weekends. I could date and really had so much free reign. But when you're a parent, though you experience that same love and joy, you're also faced with constant heartbreak, sleeplessness, loss of freedom, responsibilities, etc. I was pretty shocked at how different it was, but more importantly, shocked at how much more I could love my own child - even though I had always treated my nanny kids as "my own".
Oh- and as a nanny you get paid a pretty penny to care for others kids, but being a parent, you definitely do not get paid. You pay to be a parent in so many ways. Not that it isn't worth it - ha. This is just scratching the surface of how different it was for me.
kiwi / 633 posts
I nannied part-time in college, and full time for a couple of years after college!
@Cole: I'm in the same boat as you, due for my first in July. We'll see how much it prepared me Congrats on the BFP!
pear / 1693 posts
I nannied for over 10 years. I still see some of "my kids".
@Cole: I was a nanny for over 10 years (8 years for one family) up until the birth of my own. It's different, because you get to make your own schedule and rules. I feel nannying helped me SO much though. I'm much more relaxed than all the other first time moms I know. And I feel I've seen so many different parenting styles I've gotten to see first hand what I would and wouldn't like to do with my own. I have felt confident and natural with LO from the beginning, and I'm used to the chaos and mess that comes with kids.
cantaloupe / 6630 posts
I look after a lovely 12-month-old but I bring my own LO alonw with me so I feel like half nanny, half SAHM. I kind of get the best of both worlds.
grapefruit / 4089 posts
@travelgirl1: Not gonna lie, that sounds pretty ideal to me! I have to ask - did the family that you nanny for ever express concern that you'd give more attention to your own LO at the expense of theirs?
cantaloupe / 6630 posts
@PermaStudent: No, they didn't actually and the girls themselves are very good about sharing attention; if one needs a cuddle, the other one is very good about it. Sometimes while one is getting a hug, the other comes and sits on my knee and hugs the other girl too. The mom is another bee: @oliviaoblivia: I think what helps a lot is we discuss the girls' individual schedules and needs a lot and keep in text contact through the day.
pomelo / 5607 posts
Former nanny here! I still was when I joined HB, and we weren't even TTC yet! I quit last year when we moved, and didn't continue here because I had 2 m/c's and needed a break from kids. But I think once my kid(s) are older I'll pick it back up.
clementine / 797 posts
I was a nanny during college. I worked for a military family while the dad was deployed. I loved taking care of those kids. They were so much fun!
pineapple / 12053 posts
@travelgirl1: side note: so fun that you watch L! Love that!!
cantaloupe / 6630 posts
@birdofafeather: We do have lots of fun and both girls are great together. I can't wait for this horrendous winter to do one so we can hit up some parks and let them explore the outdoors properly, like jumping in puddles and running on the grass
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