I have been dumped twice...I didn't care too much about one but the other affected me for years.
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Once. I had a really hard time for what felt like a long time but was really maybe 6 months? I became clinically depressed so it didn't fly by... It was one of those terrible movie like breakups. Ugh.
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Only once, but it was really tough on me and affected me for a while.
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Twice! One was a short term relationship (less than 6 months?) and the other was around a year. The first one I didn't care about cause it was mutual. The 2nd one broke my heart.
But of course now in hindsight, he was a total jerk to me and I just fell for the "bad boy" type at the time. Ugh.
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Once. And I was a freshman in high school so I got over it pretty quickly. I did the dumping of the guy I dated later in high school, an then hubs and I got together when I was 19 and that was the end of my dating life.
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I've never been dumped. My first bf and I decided together that we were better off as friends, and I broke up with my second bf. Then I met my husband.
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Never.
But I have been the dumper twice. -
Once. He wanted to date all the new, young girls in his life because they were his "friends". According to him, it wasn't dates, it was just dinner, a movie, bowling, going to the beach after. He left me. But I filed for divorce.
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Only once that's important to me. It was my first real serious relationship (we lived together, had a dog, were a family), I totally loved him, and he dumped me after he cheated. I didn't date seriously for years after because it hurt me so much; actually my husband was my first serious relationship after that, though I went out on plenty of dates.
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Once. And then we continued to ...uh...bang for another year after that. Ugh waste of time!!!!
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@highwire: Haha, what a romantic way to put it!
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@highwire: haha!
I've been dumped twice! They weren't serious relationships!
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Once. I didn't care about the guy too much .... but I did care that he chose to dump me by asking my friend to tell me through IM. Classy.
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@mrbee: that's because there couldn't be anything less romantic about it
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Once by DH, about a year and a half of dating.
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I was dumped once and it was my first real boyfriend and totally broke my heart.
Otherwise, I've been the dumper.
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I've been dumped twice, both were a relief. I hated breaking up with guys.
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@Rainbow Sprinkles: same! I've never been dumped, but I've been the dumper twice.
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My husband was my basically my first boyfriend, haha. Although we did go on a break after we'd been dating for two years, but it was more of a mutual decision to work out some issues we both had. We were "broken up" for about a month, and neither of us dated anyone else, so it was kind of a lame break up, lol.
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Three times, I think? One was my very first boyfriend, so at the time I was heartbroken, even though looking back it was not even a real relationship! The second time was terrible and a huge heartbreak. The third time I was thankful that he finally ended it, because it was a terrible relationship (we were engaged and lived together) and I did not have the emotional or psychological strength to end it even though it was very toxic and needed to stop.
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Zero. So thankful for the fairytale of marrying my first love... I was spared so much pain that I watched my friends go through.
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Never, but I've been the dumper twice. Seems to be a theme on this thread, haha!
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Twice. I've dumped more guys, though.
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Never.... had one boyfriend for about a week before I started dating DH when we were 15.
I had a dream last night though that DH and I were divorcing! It was HORRIBLE!
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Zero. Just like @Mrs. High Heels, I've done the breaking up.
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None. I ended 2 "serious" relationships before DH.
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I've been dumped once, but the relationship was not going well, so I basically told him to step up and call it done. It still made me really sad for a few weeks. Other than that, unfortunately, I've been the dumper more times than I care to count. I was a bit of a commitment-phobe, so I did some damage along the way.
I feel really bad about some of them now.
But of course now in hindsight, he was a total jerk to me and I just fell for the "bad boy" type at the time. Ugh.
I feel really bad about some of them now.
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