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How much time does your SO get off for paternity leave?

  1. yin

    honeydew / 7917 posts

    DH had to use vacation, and he only has 10 days per year. Boo.

  2. Running Elley

    coconut / 8681 posts

    He can use vacation or take unpaid days. Unpaid isn't an option for us since I'm a SAHM but he's taking a week of vacation. He'll be off tomorrow through the Sunday after thanksgiving so 10 days total. We didn't think he had vacation time left (just found out yesterday) and thought that he'd only be able to take 1 unpaid day (all we can afford) so 10 days feels incredible to me!!

  3. twodoghouse

    honeydew / 7230 posts

    @littlek: Wow, that's amazing!

    My husband's work offers 2 weeks paternity leave, unpaid, any time within the first year of the baby's life. He plans on taking those, as well as using up a good chunk of his vacation since we don't anticipate doing much vacationing next year!

  4. luckypenny

    grapefruit / 4582 posts

    6 weeks paid / 6 weeks unpaid through FMLA (but he doesn't take this one)

  5. LindsayInNY

    bananas / 9229 posts

    4 weeks paid because he works in a mandatory leave state.

  6. sarac

    pomelo / 5093 posts

    Any vacation or pto he cared to use. He was offered the chance to work from home doing a training right after I delivered, so he took that after one week (which my daughter spent in the hospital). It was barely better than having him at work, and it really, really sucked. No one was taking care of me.

    If we have another, we'll do it very differently.

  7. MrsScottish

    clementine / 838 posts

    Together we get 1 year paid on EI, but in his job it is difficult for him to take (retail store manager). He will use his holiday time, and just go in when he has to do business things- schedule etc.

  8. apis

    kiwi / 575 posts

    I got 1 week paid leave, and then took some extra days of vacation.

  9. artsyfartsy

    cantaloupe / 6692 posts

    H e gets 3 months off if he wants but it's unpaid. He has vacation time to cover a month though.

  10. Penny Lane

    nectarine / 2163 posts

    nothing paid. pretty much as long as he wants unpaid.

  11. rattles

    grapefruit / 4903 posts

    Three weeks paid

  12. yellowbird

    honeydew / 7303 posts

    He could have taken 3 months unpaid with our LO, but we decided on one week after the birth and then he stayed home with her for a month when I went back to work. It was great!

  13. Sapphiresun

    nectarine / 2220 posts

    That's kind of a difficult question to answer straight because in Canada you get 17 weeks maternity leave that can only be used by a woman that physically gives birth. You also get an additional 35 weeks of parental leave (if you birth or adopt a child) to split any way you see fit between parents either concurrently or consecutively, and in my husband's case, his work tops his salary up to 93% for the entire period.

    So, he COULD have up to 35 weeks off if I was willing to go back to work when LO was 17 weeks old. BUT I think we're going to choose for me to take either the full year, or at least 11 months and he'll take the last month maybe?

  14. Boheme

    papaya / 10473 posts

    12 weeks, paid as long as he has the comp time to cover it

  15. delight

    pomelo / 5326 posts

    Like @Grace:, we have a year to split (well 50 weeks) between us. I'm taking 39 and he's taking 11 at the end. He's a teacher and LO was born in August so he also had three weeks then as part of summer holidays. We are very lucky.

  16. CupQuakeWalk

    coconut / 8475 posts

    @spaniellove: Tell me about it, girl. And mine works in the medical field, which does not *know* holidays. People WILL get sick morning, night, weekend or holiday. It is tough. I truly envy couples with work that STAYS at work. Ya know?

  17. Mae

    papaya / 10343 posts

    He gets 2 days. But he can use vacation time so thats what we'll do. He'll probably only take 1 week off though at first, and then a little more time later when his parents come stay with us.

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