I don't quite know where to put this. DS is 3 weeks and already SO different of a baby than DD was.

He doesn't tolerate a wet or dirty diaper. He HATES being fussed with in the form of being changed (both diapers and clothes) and being bathed (though that is slowly improving). He hates being fussed with so much, it typically results in a lot of grunting, arching, thrashing around that he ends up pooping. Like, as soon as a new diaper is put on - sometimes not even closed yet. It's like Anger. Crying. Grunting. Poop. Repeat. We can go through 4-5 diapers in less than 1/2 hr. We try to wait to change the diaper, but for instance, what to do after bath/bedtime. I can't try to swaddle or put him to sleep with a dirty diaper on. And changing him gets him all worked up again. Usually nursing will calm him down to go to sleep, but he'll end up with a dirty diaper again so quickly.

Have I mentioned this boy nurses like crazy. Sometimes he just snacks, sometimes he's attached to the boob for half an hour! Even the LC we saw yesterday was shocked when I looked at my app and said he nursed 15 times in 24hrs. So factor in the diaper changes with the constant nursing - I feel like I'm in a vicious cycle I need to break. Either by stretching out the time between nursing and/or figure out some way to change him without getting him all worked up to pee/poop immediately again and again.

I know he is a newborn and mostly just a phase, but I really think it's just so crazy. Or maybe I'm just really sleep-deprived and this is all normal? We're going through a pack of diapers almost every 2 days. This is all so foreign to me. DD never cared about a dirty diaper and barely made a peep to signal she was hungry. I pretty much relied on my app and a timer to feed/change her. Any advice?