I can say before pregnancy/baby we probably had 3 fights, all of which I remember, because they were so rare. Since baby, we fight a ton. I feel like he's not helping enough, he feels like he's no longer a priority, I feel like I need a break by myself, he feels like he needs me more, and I just feel like every one needs me ALL. OF. THE . TIME.

I fully understand that mommy-hood means someone needing you in order to sustain life pretty much 24 hours a day. However, I had other thoughts of what my life would be like post baby. My husband was a single dad when I met him. Raising a son on his own, and doing a pretty amazing job. Because of this I assumed, that we wouldn't be like other couples. That he would know exactly what it was like to need a baby break, since he had been through this already. Boy was I wrong! My husband is very little help when it comes to the baby. He feels as though I am the only one that can soothe our son. He also doesn't understand why I need alone time. He works 2nd shift and thinks that my alone time is after the kids go to bed, since he's working. I can't go anywhere though. I am trapped in the house, which means, I continue to do Mom things. Laundry, cooking, cleaning, night feedings, etc.

I think he struggles to handle the 2 kids by himself, where for me it comes a little easier. He gets frustrated and takes it out on the older one.

So today we argued back and forth for hours. Picking at each other on and off all day. I feel like our relationship is really suffering and that this baby has really changed us for the worst. It's totally awful.

Anyone else's relationship having a hard time adjusting post baby?