Hey everyone!

My husband just doesn't have a knack for romance. He's very intelligent and resourceful in other ways, but trying to think of some cutesy surprise for me just isn't his strong suit. Grand romantic gestures are not his thing, lol.

Sometimes it bothers me a little, especially since all my friends' husbands seem fantastic at romance, but overall I love my husband exactly the way he is and fully accept that he's just not that kind of guy!

However, with valentine's day tomorrow and our 1 year anniversary this weekend, my husband seems to be feeling inadequate. For the last week or so he's been looking at me with sad eyes, sighing and saying "I don't know what to do for you!". I try to respond by saying I love him and he doesn't need to get or do anything (He really doesn't, we're already going on a mini vacation this weekend) but then he grunts in frustration. So, I tried suggesting he just get me flowers or a small gift. His response to that is basically that wouldn't be good enough because I told him to get it, thus it isn't romantic or grand enough for our anniversary. I told him that that doesn't bother me and I would like that just fine and he replies "It bothers ME though!"

How can I convince my husband he really doesn't have to do anything and that's totally fine?