Said my friend who's wife is pregnant. Of course I asked for this secret, and his answer was sign language because it helps them communicate. I think that could be true for earlier years, but at 20 months my lo communicates pretty well through words and pointing . The problem is more that when she says she wants something and I don't want to give it to her (example-cookies before breakfast), she throws a fit.
What do you think? Does sign language help with the terrible twos?
squash / 13199 posts
I don't have a two year old yet but I am pretty sure it will take more than sign language
pomegranate / 3275 posts
My two year old was wonderful, it was when she turned three that things went crazy..... grrr the terrible threes
and sign language wouldn't help her! She communicates perfectly.
grapefruit / 4862 posts
LOL... right, WHY DIDNT ANYONE EVER THINK OF THAT? I'm sure their baby will be signing their tantrums instead of screaming them.
Sorry to be snarky but really!?!? I'm just KU so I don't try to tell people how to parent- because I clearly don't know! 
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
My 2+ year old is extremely verbal and knows exactly how to ask for what she wants and throws the biggest fits in the world if I don't give it to her... so I highly doubt it's a communication/understanding issue!
If someone had the answer to the terrible two's, they would be a billionaire by now!!
honeydew / 7091 posts
Hahaha, after watching my two nephews who can communicate just fine, sign language is definitely not the answer.
hostess / watermelon / 14932 posts
i think perhaps it helps with communication frustrations but I don't think it is the total secret to the terrible 2s as a whole. they're learning so many things! like their place in the house, the world, how to communicate and learn (sharing, turn taking, etc)..
hostess / watermelon / 14932 posts
@MamaBehr: agree! terrible 3s are nuts. and age 4, for girls at least.
GOLD / pomelo / 5737 posts
Nope! The terrible twos are developmental (and there is actually evidence that infant signing isn't very beneficial- an average period of a month when they can sign but not speak...though reviews on that are mixed!) During the terrible twos only one of the problems is a lack of vocabulary; they're also testing and learning boundaries, which is what it sounds like in your example. This is just my opinion..*disclaimer* I don't yet have a 2 y/o! (But neither does your friend unless they have an older kid!)
wonderful clementine / 24134 posts
I agree that sign language was beneficial for us for a while but more in the age range of 10-18 months. Now she can talk and like you said its just complete meltdowns over nothing or because I refuse to bend to her demands.
kiwi / 613 posts
Yeah, I agree sign language has been super helpful, but in no way does it stop the meltdowns!
GOLD / wonderful coffee bean / 18478 posts
@googly-eyes: haha. I am trying to picture DD having a silent sign language tantrum. I am cracking up!!!
papaya / 10570 posts
*Cackle* They're going to have a shock!!! The only way to prevent the terrible twos is to adopt a three year old! Then you just have the terrible threes to deal with!!
pomegranate / 3329 posts
I'd like to hear his response to that when his child is 2, 3, and 4. lol
persimmon / 1081 posts
LOL! That's a good one! Good luck to your friend with the whole parenting thing!
bananas / 9118 posts
Snort! Good luck to them 
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