I'm now out of the closet and my family and friends know, so I'll probably post something on FB. Don't know what yet, but something.
What about you?
I'm now out of the closet and my family and friends know, so I'll probably post something on FB. Don't know what yet, but something.
What about you?
persimmon / 1085 posts
I haven't in the past, but may do something this time since we're going through IVF again and it is a big slap in the face reminder about how awful infertility is for so many people. Not sure what I'll do though. I would love to participate in a special 5k walk or something. I'll check to see if anything is going on locally here!
bananas / 9899 posts
I want to post something about it on Facebook this year. It's stupid, but I just wasn't brave enough to post about it before. It's important to me to raise awareness about it though and hopefully help others know they are not alone.
bananas / 9229 posts
I would have no problems posting if I were pregnant or had a LO. but I don't know if I want to come out right now. Maybe I'll post something supporting others?
pear / 1846 posts
I have been thinking about this, I want to do something but not sure what. I don't want to post on fb because that is like saying to everyone 'hey we are TTC'.
GOLD / squash / 13576 posts
I want to do something. I feel like it's such a hush hush subject and so many people are completely clueless.
pomelo / 5228 posts
I wish I were brave enough, but I think its just too personal for me to put on FB. I applaud those of you who can do it though!
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
I just posted a link to fb that is pretty good. Maybe I'll repost it then.
clementine / 901 posts
I would like to do something. I've been out and pretty outspoken (shared articles/blog posts etc.) on Facebook but I would like to do something specific that day, just not sure what.
hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts
@MrsTal: Let me know if you find something.
A IF friend of mine just told me she had a second miscarriage. I sorta want to post something on FB about April Fool's jokes around getting pregnant and how they are NOT funny. I might be annoyed by posts like that, but for my friend, it could hurt her even more.
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
@bluestriped bee: i just saw something like that on my news feed.
hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts
@Mrs. Polish: I have seen that. Thanks for reminding me about it. Maybe I'll post that one soon.
pear / 1846 posts
@Mrs. Polish: that one is great, truthful, funny and not bitter sounding.
hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts
@Snowdrop: @Mrs. Polish: Yeah, I said something on the thread asking what everyone was going to do for April Fool's day.
http://boards.hellobee.com/topic/will-you-prank-anyone-on-april-1st#post-1523369
I might have been an IF thread killer.
pomelo / 5000 posts
I don't know what I'll do. I probably won't do anything on FB--I'm pretty limited in my activity there anyway, and I don't get too personal. Hmmmm. How can you do something as a private person--ideas?
pomelo / 5228 posts
@Mrs. Polish: Love that graphic! Maybe I'll post it if I see people using the pregnant "prank".
bananas / 9229 posts
I kinda like this. A bit passive aggressive but subtle: http://twibbon.com/support/infertility-awareness
Or maybe I'll just share the graphic that @Mrs. Polish: posted... Subtle enough too!
hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts
@LindsayInNY: I like that. It is subtle, but it could slowly get your feet wet about telling more people.
hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts
@Snowdrop: yeah, I'm thinking of posting it on March 31st. In hopes that it prevents people from saying it.
bananas / 9229 posts
Last year I played the April Fools pregnancy on my sister via text. We had been TTC for 4-5 months at that point (clearly I'm having the last laugh now...). Not only do I realize how NOT funny it is now, I felt terrible for doing it to my sister last year. She got so excited... I felt absolutely horrible. I don't think people think about that when they post their "joke" either...
wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts
@bluestriped bee: it and I admire you for sharing openly and raising awareness!
blogger / honeydew / 7081 posts
@bluestriped bee: I really like those pictures. If I see any tomorrow, I'll post one. While we were TTC, I probably would have posted both ahead of time.
I'm going to link to a blog post of mine about IF, and I will probably share some links or photos.
bananas / 9229 posts
@bluestriped bee: I really like that second picture but I don't know if there's any way to post it without outing myself. And I'm not ready to do that yet...
hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts
Anyone else thinking of doing anything for IF awareness?
Anyone not have IF and is willing to post on our behalf? If so, I'll forever you.
blogger / pomegranate / 3300 posts
Last year I did a blog post here and I linked it on my Facebook page. Although I have children now I still remember the pain, and can relate to everyone still struggling. I'm not sure what I will do this year. I might be able to write another post but I am not sure what else to say
nectarine / 2631 posts
I would like to post something... I don't know what yet. I will need to think about it.
Also I am having a party that day with my friends- so I may say something to them about it! Even though we have a LO now- I still remember that pain- and especially now that we are thinking of how we are going to get to our next child (with no IF insurance coverage) I feel those same feelings again,.
pomelo / 5000 posts
I'm echoing what I said before, but I'm going to find a way to do something in a quiet way. I don't post that much on Facebook to begin with, and when I do, it's not very personal stuff. I would be uncomfortable sharing something like that on FB.
I may something in person to friends, look into what I can to do to get better IF coverage for people living in VA., reach out to a few friends I know who have also struggled.....I'm still brain storming!
pomelo / 5607 posts
I'd like to at least post something on FB and maybe my blog, but since I don't have personal experience with IF, I'm not really sure what would make sense coming from me. I do like the link @Mrs. Polish: posted. Any IF people want to give some ideas of what they'd appreciate seeing from those of us who are just trying to be supportive? I did do a blog post about some insensitive things that were said to me after my second m/c, and it tied in closely with IF (the person seemed to assume my lack of enthusiasm about TTC came from IF, since I didn't specify). I used this graphic, which I liked.
pomelo / 5607 posts
@bluestriped bee: Also, why do you say it's the 27th? Google is turning up April 20th-26th for me. Am I missing something?
hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts
@Torchwood: Oh, that's what I saw being spread on the FB IF group that I'm a part of. Some people follow IF awareness day (April 27th), week (4/20-4/26th) and some say April is IF awareness month. *Shrugs* I don't know. I saw it and quickly posted it here.
I think last year, I preferred Awareness week over Awareness day. More IF awareness if we get it for the whole week.
Good to know when the week starts. That I wasn't sure about. Thanks!
Last year, I created this thread and question why it was one day, one week or one month. http://boards.hellobee.com/topic/you-doing-anything-for-infertility-awareness-month-or-week-april-21-27#post-709603
hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts
@Torchwood: I like that. Now that I'm already out, posting like that would be the next step! Thanks for that idea! My FB friends are really supportive but I have seen borderline comments that bother me a little, but I didn't want turn the positive thread negative. So I just left it as it is. This year might be a good time to post that image. Maybe I'll post my IF tattoo, too. Since I didn't really tell anyone about it.
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