But also says they absolutely are against a certain practice (like CIO, for instance) would you still suggest to do that practice? I wonder if this happens online more than in person but I find when I see people post help questions online, some people just either don't read or they don't care and tell the person what they think, rather than something that will help.

I try to read what people are asking for and if they say they don't want to do a certain practice or don't believe in something, I don't bring it up! What do you do?