This is the dumbest post I've ever put on HB. Forgive me

If you didn't share your baby's name before birth, did you have anyone ask you for initials for gifts? We haven't told anyone baby's name yet, but we live in the South where monograms are huge. One of my sweet friends asked if I would tell her the initials so she could get something monogrammed for my shower... I'm so torn! My husband really wants to keep the name to ourselves til he's born. Then again, I'm not sure anybody would guess by the initials. I don't want to hurt her feelings by not telling her because she's a good friend of ours. What would you do?