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We are planning to wait a couple of months but would be happy now too

@KT326: I feel the same way.

I'd be over the moon excited, and completely terrified after 2 losses.

God, I wish this was my reality.

Since I have a three week old I would flip the F out. And then wonder how the sperm got in me.

This was me 3 weeks ago... and I freaked out. DH had taken permanent measures that we thought had worked. Oops! Guess not! We were 100% done, so this came as quite a shock. We are settling in to the idea now, but 3 kids 4 and under are definitely going to keep us busy. We are in the middle of deciding whether we should move to a bigger home or try to add on to our existing home. Eek, craziness!!

I'd be shocked that my Mirena failed and scared about finances but ecstatic because I really want another child and having a surprise would take out the should we/shouldn't we back and forth we face daily!

Like @coopsmama: I'd also be so happy for some additional confirmation of my VERY early pregnancy too!

i'd be confused and shocked (as DH has been snipped) but we'd ultimately be happy!

@dcw6411: this is our fear! we had a "scare" a month or so ago when i was a couple days late. (dont have to answer if its personal but.. ) did your DH get his counts checked (i'm assuming he had a vasectomy?) DH got his checked a couple months after the procedure and it came back negative for sperm. maybe we need to keep getting it checked periodically to be safe??

@BandDmommy: i think it was 12 weeks at the earliest that the dr would allow dh to get his sperm count checked. so somewhere between 3-4 months i'd say.

I'd cry. DD is only a month old and DS is still having a lot of trouble adjusting. DH would be pissed. He is sure we're two and through.

Well, given that dd 2 is exactly one week and one day old today, I'd have a heart attack!!

@kodybear: Yes, he had a vasectomy, 6 months before I got pregnant. He had his numbers tested and they came back at 1 non viable swimmer left. The doctor told him that everything was successful. 2 months later.... I am preggo. He is going back in January for a second test which will put him at almost a year out from his procedure. His doctor said this is the first person he has had this happen to in his entire career, so I am assuming that it is very very rare. It is a little crazy as it took us several months to get pregnant with both of our other children. Craziness!

@BandDmommy: My husband was also told to wait at least 4 months before his first test.

I'd be upset and sad. I couldn't deal with another baby just yet.

I would have an abortion.

Wouldn't be surprised! Already almost 7 weeks with our first!

Panic, but be happy. Call the realtor and get a bigger place, start car shopping for something that can hold 2 car seats, then cry that my sweet 4 month old won't get the chance to enjoy me as my only child much longer.

Stressed. We have an almost 5 month old and are 99% sure we're done. Also- shocked because we've been quite, uh hum, non active in that department since LO was born (DH is terrified of getting me pregnant again...we had a rough newborn stage)

I'd freak the F out. We are one-and-done.

I would be so so happy. We are trying for #2 and we already had a loss in Oct so I am really hoping it happens soon.