How would you feel? Happy? Freaking out? Upset? Anxious?
I'd be happy, I think! We aren't TTC for #3 yet, but since the fall had two "surprise" pregnancies that ended in m/c and that solidified our desire for a third baby. This is the first time that the timing wouldn't be terrible or stress producing, so I think we'd be ready for it.
wonderful clementine / 24134 posts
@winniebee: Having M/C is so hard.
We'd be surprised and freaked out but overall it would eventually be welcomed.
pomegranate / 3845 posts
I would be stressed. We're dealing with a lot with LO, but at the same time, we were planning on it before the sh*t hit the fan, so it wouldn't be the end of the world.
pineapple / 12793 posts
Last time I answered this question I was already pregnant and didn't know it.
Answer wisely ladies.
hostess / watermelon / 14932 posts
I would be happy but also alarmed and terrified. I just sold off a lot of baby gear. We just bought a 3 bedroom house. But, I'm so sad my baby is turning 1, so I would be a little excited!
I would be dreading DH's reaction. He doesn't want any more!!
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22276 posts
@winniebee: haha I just posted a post about how many kids you can handle, so going off that I would not be happy...and I don't mean that in a mean way. I would come around but it would be a rough start. That's why we use multiple forms of birth control 
pomegranate / 3438 posts
We would be thrilled. Would save us thousands of $'s on fertility treatments!
pomelo / 5720 posts
I would initially be overwhelmed and anxious about the idea but we would both welcome another child if it happened.
grapefruit / 4066 posts
I would be pretty upset. I'm sure I would come around eventually but I would definitely be devastated and stressed at first
pomelo / 5298 posts
Devastated. We took permanent measures to prevent another pregnancy. We'd figure it out but I would really struggle with another.
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
I think I'd probably feel sick. Although I personally wouldn't mind another, my husband is 100% done and would be upset if I were pregnant again. I'd dread telling him and figuring out what we were going to do.
pear / 1961 posts
@oliviaoblivia: hahaha
Happy, but surprised. I may also consider it an immaculate conception 
blogger / honeydew / 7081 posts
Very, very anxious/nervous/upset. Max isn't quite 3 months old, we've been very careful, and we're 99% sure that we're done!
grapefruit / 4355 posts
I would be surprised since I have an IUD in. But we are planning for more kids so it would just mean a smaller age gap than we anticipated!
persimmon / 1322 posts
Freaked out, but happy. I have a 4 month old, so it wouldn't be ideal timing, but we'd figure it out.
persimmon / 1188 posts
It would be unexpected but I'd be happy. We will probably want another child in the next couple of years.
coconut / 8854 posts
@oliviaoblivia: LOL!!!
I would be super excited! a little nervous because then I would have 2 under 2 but that's the plan anyways!!
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
I would freak out because it would mean Irish twins. I'd be thrilled with a miraculous natural conception. I would be scared because I would have a 50% chance of miscarriage or late term loss and a 17% chance of having a baby with Down's Syndrome.
So basically lots of complicated feelings!
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
I am 40 weeks pregnant tomorrow is really like to not be pregnant any more and have my baby home for Christmas!
pomegranate / 3393 posts
Sigh. It would be awful awful timing, baby would be due just as I'd be starting school, but a part of me would be happy because I'm not 100% at peace with being done with one child.
wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts
@oliviaoblivia: hahaha!
I'd be happy! We aren't due to TTC again for another half a year, but I think we'd still be very happy if it happened now!
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
@oliviaoblivia: HA HA!
We would freak out. But it would be okay.
grapefruit / 4584 posts
Thrilled, though I think my initial reaction would be "Oh sh*t, we're actually doing this!". Being pregnant right now would give me 3 kids 4 and under.
cantaloupe / 6791 posts
I'd freak out for a bit, but then I'd be excited (and scared...probably back and forth for awhile). We want another, but LO2 is only 4 months!
persimmon / 1233 posts
Shocked at the immaculate conception like @KayKay, considering I have a 2 week old.
I'd be pretty overwhelmed since we've decided we're through now, but I'd get over it and eventually be excited, hopefully. I'd start saving for a night nurse!
grapefruit / 4455 posts
Stressed out. We have a two month old and three year old and are probably done due to finances and if we are realistic time and energy. We have a long list of goals to complete before #3 in the event that we decide to have a third, which we most likely will not. But a small part of me would be excited.
grapefruit / 4455 posts
@PinkElephant: my grandma (and I bet a lot of other bees grandmas) had 4 under 3! I don't know how she did it!
pomelo / 5132 posts
I'd be petrified. We think we want a third, but my youngest is only 4 months old
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