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Sometimes ! I think I even feel more guilty bc he does stuff really willingly ha ha. Maybe if he wasnt (usually) so sweet about it I wouldn't feel so guilty !

nope. we have twins, so he's had to majorly help from day 1. he still gets up once or twice a night with them. he knows the kids are crazy some days and i just can't get anything done. but days that they are good, i try to compensate and be extra productive during the day so we can both just relax in the evening instead of doing so many chores.

you said that you wouldn't go help him at his job, but if he were sick, he'd get to stay home and rest and get better, right? you deserve that too! he'll survive, trust me

I hate to ask him to do anything...but ds is in school and I have tons of time to myself. He works his butt off at work. Even these past 2 weeks, I've had a hard time asking for help with things, even though I've been recuperating and he's been home.

I don't feel guilty. My job is to take care of our daughter, which I do. Some days my LO doesn't allow me to get much else done around the house, so my DH has to chip in when he gets home from work. I know he's tired, but it's not like I've just been sitting around all day...it's those days that I am usually tired, too. Of course, I get as much done during the day as I can...because it makes for a more enjoyable evening!

I don't feel guilty. He's said many times that he has the easier job, plus chipping in at home = QT for him and LO. Feel better soon!