http://www.fertilityauthority.com/blogger/jay-bronte/2011/04/04/infertility-etiquette

I found this link through Pinterest and thought it was pretty well written.

I had a friend suggest she could be our surrogate far before we really knew what was wrong. It was extremely awkward because I knew she only wanted to be helpful, but, well...I knew right then that she didn't understand at all. That part kind of made me laugh.