My regular baby shower is Sunday, but our church is throwing us a couples shower from the rest of the church staff. We didn't have any input on the guest list - all other church staff were automatically invited - and I feel awful that some people were invited to both. I definitely don't want anyone to feel obligated to give us two gifts! I also don't want to seem gift grabby.

I had no idea we were even going to have another shower til yesterday. It was going to be a surprise, but they decided to tell us to make sure the dates worked and the invitations have already gone out. My friends from our Sunday school class are throwing me a freezer meal shower as well, but they're my nearest and dearest so I'm not worried about that one.

Has this ever happened to you? Or have you been on the guest list for two showers? I am so thankful for them but embarrassed some people were included twice