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That looks about how mine did, if I remember correctly, except for the "extra" fabric in the shoulders. I usually had to force my shoulder fabric to spread out wider on my shoulders. But, I had the original, not the breeze, so I can't comment on the mesh - maybe that's changing the way it fits? Does it feel snug at all, or just kind of loose and floppy-ish, like she's hanging in it instead of being nicely snugged up to you?

And yes, it did get tighter after washing, but it did stretch out again when I wore it.

Here's a photo. Maybe mine does look smaller on me than yours does on you, actually? And this should compare to the size of your kiddo; mine was 8 pounds 1 oz at birth and this is less than a week later. If you're feeling it's not right, then I say you should try the medium size and see what you think of that!

I had the regular ktan and it just never get like it fit right. I wanted to love it, but I ended up returning it and using the moby because Lo felt so much more secure in it. I also never quite figured out that hold in the cradle position- we both liked the one where baby is tummy to tummy with you, legs froggy in against your tummy, head up (I held her head with my hand early on since she wouldn't tolerate the fabric on it).

I really wanted to love the ktan- so much quicker than the moby. But once I got used to the moby I never looked back.

I';m a similar build. I am slightly between the 2 sizes and the directions say to choose the smaller size due to stretching. I got the M, and both DH and I can wear it and J fits fine when either wear it.