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We are going through the same thing (although we have a stressor by way of a new baby in the mix). I feel like E has lost the motivation for it. It was fun at first but now its just a chore and yet another thing she is being dictated to about, so she tries to exert control by refusing to go when asked. I've put her back in pull ups temporarily and I'm going to make a star chart and try again in a couple of weeks.

LO1 has been trained for a few months, but even now she only tells us she has to go 75% of the time. The rest of the time, I have to watch the clock and just put her on the potty every 2-3 hours.

For us, we don't get fighting if we work the potty into our natural schedule. So we always have to potty when we wake up, before leaving the house, before and after nap, before leaving the house again, before bed--we tend to go to the park or whatever a couple times a day, so it works out.

When it's a normal part of the schedule, we don't get the fighting. Any time I try to have her stop playing to potty, she fights it, just because she wants to keep playing.