My friend sent me this link, and I thought it was so interesting!!
http://m.nypost.com/p/news/international/kate_natural_woman_5O4jsaYQPmAG5Lae05vDjK
My friend sent me this link, and I thought it was so interesting!!
http://m.nypost.com/p/news/international/kate_natural_woman_5O4jsaYQPmAG5Lae05vDjK
GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts
A few weeks ago I read that she was planning on going med-free and had been doing Hypobabies (or studying whatever the method behind it is, I can't remember if it was that specific program or not).
pomegranate / 3231 posts
Well, it sounds like she also had a textbook experience with no complications or necessary interventions. I am going to try for an unmedicated birth, and hopefully I will have a relatively short labor and be able to manage it. But if there are complications and I have to be induced then I will most likely get an epidural. I don't want to experience pitocin contractions without any painkillers.
bananas / 9357 posts
Oh very interesting! I bet that's why she was looking so great the next day. I was up and moving just fine just hours after my med-free birth.
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
Nice! 11 hours for a first labor is really great and manageable - sounds like everything went smoothly and without complication for her. I'm happy for them!
GOLD / pineapple / 12662 posts
I am so happy for her that her birth experience was (presumably) so calm and happy. That was not, unfortunately, my experience.
ETA: But knowing that some people have great labors makes me truly happy . . . it's like finding out that unicorns really do exist!
A quote from the article . . . "while many moms-to-be call for powerful painkillers to dull the intense discomfort during labor . . ." Intense *discomfort* my ass! My first few contraction sets (yeah, they were stacking in sets of 3 and 4 with no rest in between) would have had this asshat on his knees begging for his mama . . . or death! I had an (almost failed) unplanned induction with tons of Pitocin, back labor, and other lovely stuff to boot! And it lasted waaaaaay longer than 11 hours. I am amazed at how much the pain of giving birth is minimized!!!
persimmon / 1116 posts
@MsLipGloss: I wrinkled my nose at that line too! And, I haven't even experienced labor yet!! Haha!
persimmon / 1116 posts
@Mrs. High Heels: @ElbieKay: I also think having her Mom there as her Doula probably helped! I hope my labor goes similarly, we will see!
pomelo / 5258 posts
Good for her. I thought she would be pressured to have interventions "for the safety of the (royal) baby."
GOLD / pineapple / 12662 posts
@citymouse: Yeah, it's not like she had a wedgie or a sprained ankle, SHE GAVE BIRTH. Sheeesh!
GOLD / wonderful pomegranate / 28905 posts
@MsLipGloss: ha! My immediate reaction was even if it wasn't "textbook" calm I'm sure the media is not told otherwise!
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
Good for her! She was STUNNING the day after birth. I was a swollen mess from my iv edema!
coconut / 8861 posts
@MsLipGloss: I hate that line too. She was fortunate enough not have GBS either. I had GBS and needed IV antibiotics. Med-free labor is right for some women, but for me, it wasn't. I wanted an epidural from the instant my labor intensified.
cantaloupe / 6869 posts
@MsLipGloss: I hate reading articles written by men on childbirth, pregnancy etc.
GOLD / pineapple / 12662 posts
@cascademom: Ditto. And I hemorrhaged, so bring on even more fluids for over 24 hours!
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
ha, that article makes it sound like two dozen people were there watching her. Doctors behind glasses, a team of midwives...good lord.
papaya / 10570 posts
@MsLipGloss: I also had an almost-failed induction with the hormone drip on full blast and I did mine with only gas-and-air because, after taking 4 days to get to 2cm, I went from 2-10cm in less than 3 hours and my midwife didn't realise I was progressing so quickly, she just thought I was bring a drama queen!! The contractions were one on top of another from the moment they switched the drip on - it was downright brutal. Oh and i had to do the whole thing (from 2-10 and pushing) in bed on my back because monitoring baby was more important than my comfort. Intense discomfort my arse!! Id like to show him intense discomfort!
I think its wonderful she did it med free and hopefully this will raise the profile of hypnobirthing, which really does work for so many people....For me, though, next time, I'm getting the epi as soon as I see that BFP!! No messing!!
GOLD / pineapple / 12662 posts
@Cherrybee: Oh hon, that is so awful! Drama queen . . . *augh* . . . yanno, being a first time mom doesn't mean that you don't have a clue! And yeah, I would like to help define *intense discomfort* for him!
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
I mean, good for her, but that article is so annoying. Intense 'discomfort'. I did manage to have my unmedicated birth but I can assure you not a single person in that room was 'marveling at my composure'. But like Kate I had a relatively quick and uncomplicated labor. If I had back labor or it had taken longer I would not have done it.
I'm more impressed with how lovely she looked the day after.
pomelo / 5524 posts
@MsLipGloss: This line also made me cringe. My BFF and I always joke that if either of our DHs had to go through anything we went through, they would have never made it through!
papaya / 10570 posts
@Foodnerd81: She did look wonderful afterwards. I felt a bit sorry for her though because she needed to look radiant and probably had a team of stylists to make it so. Imagine having to worry about photos less than 24 hrs after childbirth!! I was in blood stained pj bottoms (I changed them twice and bled out onto each new pair until I had none left) and washed my hair but didn't feel up to blow drying it so it was a big curly, fluffy mess! Bad times!!
GOLD / pineapple / 12662 posts
@2PeasinaPod: My DH admitted as much. He has also shared that it was scary for him . . . to quote him, "I mean, my whole world was up on that table!"
coconut / 8861 posts
@Cherrybee: I believe that she does her own makeup. As someone here mentioned, she probably had an adult diaper or very big pad on despite the pretty Jenny Packham dress.
I don't know if anyone has HBO, but they showed a great documentary last night called "First Comes Love." The filmmaker documented her pregnancy and single motherhood. Her birth scene made me cry, got nostalgic, etc. For me, that was the most accurate representation of a normal birth despite some critics calling it graphic, etc. What's funny is that when she was birthing her son, I thought to myself, wow, that's what it looked like from what my husband saw. In her postpartum scenes, she required a walker and her hair was a mess. That's close to how it was for me.
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
@Cherrybee: I know- even with a team of stylists it's just not right to need to be that presentable. I'm pretty much exactly at the same point right now as she was and I'm doing well, but I'm still in the hospital gown with a splotchy face from bursting blood vessels while pushing. Hot.
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