If you could redo your kitchen completely, what would you change to make it more suitable as a family kitchen?

Like, microwave up high so kids don't push all the buttons? Or cabinets that don't slam, or have handles that are easier to put child safety locks on... or anything.

And where do you go to look for inspiration for your dream kitchen and renovations? I'm looking at hgtv.com right now. Any other ideas are appreciated!