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Know your audience?

  • poll: Who is right?
    Me! : (58 votes)
    62 %
    DH (really????? jk lol) : (23 votes)
    25 %
    Pickles. : (12 votes)
    13 %
  1. NavyRN2012

    persimmon / 1447 posts

    I agree with your DH. I think he does have a right to be able to vent to you, even if you have it worse. But I also think YOU have the right to vent to him as well.

  2. Mrs.Panda

    nectarine / 2358 posts

    If it is your DH, he gets the right to complain. It doesn't minimize your suffering at all, he's just tired or achy or whatever and that's okay. I would rather just say "me too" than invalidate his feelings by saying WELL I'M WAY MORE TIRED/HUNGRY/GASSY. And I get it, I'm pregnant too! But if it were to others concerning money, weight, work, being pregnant, etc I make sure I know my audience. Yes I'm tired and my back hurts from pregnancy but I would never say that to someone who may be struggling or wanting to TTC.

    Basically, between DH and me, I let him complain away. To others I watch my mouth.

  3. birdofafeather

    pineapple / 12053 posts

    @grizz: ahaha. asspats sandwich!

    i agree with you. know your audience for sure.

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