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wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts
@Maysprout: ugh, I totally agree that in those situations parents are just using it to slack off almost!
wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts
@hotpink: I'm sooo glad that they were ok!! I think sometimes the harness system is more like a safety net for parents!
persimmon / 1447 posts
I've seriously thought about getting one for DD. She's a runner, so we have to take the double stroller everywhere, which is really burdensome. I'm just worried about the judgements. I was actually thinking about this the other day and asked my husband how he felt about them. He thinks they're brilliant. Maybe I'll get over my fear of judgement and get one.
eggplant / 11408 posts
I voted yes, but the truth is a little more complicated.
DD is a runner and has been for as long as she could walk. We bought her a Skip Hop harness backpack right around 13 months, after one too many run-across-the-parking-lot incidents. She loved, and still loves, the backpack, but we had very little luck with the leash. She quickly learned that if she ran away from me while I was holding the leash, she would go flying or faceplant. It turns out she loves that sensation and finds it hilarous, so she did it on purpose all of the time. That meant we quickly abandoned the leash part of it. But, the backpack has a top handle on it, which I found helpful for grabbing before she could slip away unnoticed. It's also great for carrying a small snack, an extra pair of shoes, or a lovey. And it makes her more visible, since it's bright yellow. I'd say it was money well spent, even if we didn't quite use it as expected
eggplant / 11408 posts
@snowjewelz: as for the no hand holding, we are still hit and miss over here at 23 months!!
apricot / 448 posts
I haven't yet, but not out of the question. DS is a runner for sure though so I'm sure it will happen soon.
My mom leashed us, so no judgement here. The only time it bothers me, is when I see a slightly older sibling holding the leash.... Usually they are tugging the younger kid around and the whole idea of it being a safety precaution seems lost.
persimmon / 1114 posts
Before I had kids I thought they were terrible. However, ds is a runner and absolutely hated his stroller ever since he could walk. We bought one of those skip-hop ones to use for outtings. That being said we rarely used it because (a) he did not like that either and (b) it did not actually make things easier. But if it worked, I think it actually would have been a good compromise between giving him "freedom" and keeping him safe.
pomegranate / 3863 posts
I've been ncredibly lucky to not have a runner, DS is so good at always holding my hand so we've never needed a leash. I wouldn't hesitate to use one though if I had any concerns about my child's safety. Better to be be safe than sorry.
wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts
@bloved: I read on Amazon reviews that a lot of people swap out the short leash for a longer one haha!
@jill_a55: I can totally see parents/siblings misusing it and therefore giving it a bad rep too!
@LovelyPlum: Yeah, I was thinking about getting a back pack anyway, and I like that you were able to use the handle as a quick "grab them" tool!
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