Help calm my nerves, alleviate my mom guilt. My husband and I are traveling for a destination wedding for 5 days. I have a three year old and a one year old. I haven't left them for this long before and I'm feeling so guilty and sad. We leave tomorrow and today my DD got pink eye and has a cold, so I'm sure my youngest will get it when we are gone and I feel terrible. I'm also worried my one year old will forget about me. My parents are staying with them, and they watch them when I work, and earlier this month we spent a week with them. So I know they will be alight, so why do I feel so sad?! Help calm my fears and my nerves, please!