my baby will be 3 weeks old tomorrow. her belly button stump is still attached. we went to see her pediatrician today and she said the stump seemed very attached, so she used some wooden stick thing to kinda dig around it and lift it up in an attempt to "help" it fall off. My baby was screaming her head off and seemed to be in a lot of pain. She cried for a long while afterwards and now is finally asleep. Did anyone else go through this. I just wonder if it was really necessary