GOLD / coconut / 8266 posts
@Tidybee: I am praying for you and your LO. I'm so glad the spotting is under control.
nectarine / 2834 posts
@mrskc: @swedishfish: @LovelyPlum: thanks! I'm trying to stay positive especially without spotting but then I remember how low my hcg was and I get scared again. We will have answers on Monday...at least I hope!
persimmon / 1085 posts
@Tidybee: I hope it goes well Monday!! This must be so hard for you. Thinking positive thoughts for you!
nectarine / 2834 posts
@mrskc: thanks so much! I will update afterwards.
This is such an awful feeling...
nectarine / 2705 posts
I just caught up on this roller coaster ride you've been on. I'm piping up to let you know you have more positive, strong, good thoughts headed your way.
nectarine / 2834 posts
**update**
Baby is still fighting and grew right on track (8 weeks) and has a good heartbeat. We saw arms and legs too. However, the gestational sac only grew 4 days worth in 11 days, measuring 6w2d. The doctor said that the discrepancy is very concerning and odds are I'll miscarry before 12 or 13 weeks. If I don't, There could be a chromosomal abnormality and I'll have to to cvs or amnio.
I wasn't quite prepared for this news. I was ready to accept if the baby was gone already. I thought I'd be able to move on after today but as it stands, I basically have to wait to miscarry. My heart is literally breaking but I'll get through it. You all have helped so much wih your kind words and thoughts.
grapefruit / 4028 posts
@Tidybee: I am so, so sorry. Did the dr seem hopeful at all? I will pray for the best possible outcome for you.
Big hugs your way.
persimmon / 1121 posts
@Tidybee: I'm so sorry, I can't even imagine how hard this must be. Hugs.
hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts
@Tidybee: biggest hugs. Life is just not fair. I'm so sorry.
clementine / 933 posts
@Tidybee: Hugs, hugs, hugs. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this.
pomelo / 5228 posts
@Tidybee: Sorry you're still in limbo Thinking of you and your little fighter...
pomegranate / 3127 posts
Sorry you have to deal with this, and big hugs. Your baby is a fighter, and i hope all will be well.
eggplant / 11861 posts
@Tidybee: My heart is breaking for you, I can't even imagine, stay strong, that baby is fighting, Give the worrying to God and take care of yourself, he knows your outcome! I'm praying for you! All things are possible!
grapefruit / 4006 posts
@Tidybee: oh my goodness. I'm so sorry you are going through this. Big hugs.
nectarine / 2705 posts
@Tidybee: Continuing to send good thoughts your way...lean on HB - we're here for you!
nectarine / 2834 posts
Thanks everyone, for keeping us in your thoughts and prayers. The nurse practitioner from the office called this morning, and she and my ob/gyn seem a little more positive than the radiologist based on the heart rate and growth rate of the baby. But they said not to be "100% hopeful" since this pregnancy has had complications from the beginning (low progesterone, slow rising hcg). They don't want to see me back until 12 weeks...4 weeks from now. I'm really going to have to find things to keep me busy....
ETA: We have a family member who is an ob/gyn and he is reviewing the results with his staff and seeing what they all have to say as well. My guess is not much different than wait and see.
blogger / grapefruit / 4836 posts
@Tidybee: That's good news! I would imagine if they were concerned they would want to see you sooner than that. Praying for you and your little fighter
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