My husband is in medical school, and starting his residency in pediatrics in June. Basically, for those unfamiliar with the process, we have to create a list of his favorite programs in order of preference and then he will be "matched" based on the program's preference of applicants.

He is interested in a program that is about 3 hours from our family and friends (and where we currently live). He's interested in closer programs, but this one has really got his interest. I'm interested too, because the cost of living in the area is lower than here, so we'd be more comfortable financially (I'm going to be staying at home for as long as we can afford it).

What would it be like to move to a new community with an infant? Our baby will be about 1 1/2 months old when his residency starts. I know moving will be a giant PITA, but temporary. My bigger concerns are about being in a new place.

I figure I'd have the same problem if we stay here- I don't really know anyone else with kids, so I'll have to get creative about meeting new people and filling our days so I don't go crazy. My husband is very supportive and involved, but he will be super busy.

Would it be awful to be far away from everyone you know with a newborn?

How do you make new friends and connect either as a new mom in general, or in a new community?

Thoughts?