DH and I are keeping our little girl's name a secret until she is born. We have decided 100% on the first name. DH came up with a middle name. I think it goes really well with the first name.

My only issue is my good friend has said that she wanted it for a girl's name if she had a girl. She ended up having a boy and she has said that they don't think that they will have a 2nd. I am afraid that she will upset if we use it as a middle name in case they do have another child and it is a girl. I can't ask her cause I don't want her to know the middle name. She already guessed the first name, even though I didn't let her know she was right!!

What do you think? Would you care if someone used "your name" as a middle name? If you were her, would you still use it as a first name?