While I've always thought I'd be a SAHM, I am becoming more and more open to being a working mom. In thinking about child care, one of the questions that came into my mind is - How do you implement the routine/schedule/approach that you want to use when someone else is with LO most of the day?

For example, if you AP and want your LO to feed on demand and sleep whenever they like. How can you insure that your daycare provider does this? Likewise, if you wanted to try out some sort of routine, do you just dictate this to your daycare provider? What if they have a routine for the other infants that this would conflict with? I'm very curious about how this is handled!