We're moving back to a house that we lived in a few years ago so my husband can finish up the last part of his program. I really like the house but the neighborhood is different than when we lived there before so we'll have to re-meet lots of people. We live right behind an elementary school so luckily anyone with a bad past can't live in the neighborhood but.....last time we lived there we found out that our neighbor was molesting his daughters friends. Terrible stuff and he's now in jail but it still concerns me on how to build trust with new people.

He seemed so normal, him and his wife went out on dates once a week, had a sweet daughter, they had us over for dinner a few times. It makes me sick because they're who I probably trusted to watch our LO if I had to run a quick errand. I know you can't guard them from everything but I need to try and guard her from people like that.

How do you build trust with new people when you have LO?