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My dh got his deployment orders this weekend.

  1. snowjewelz

    wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts

    I am so sorry! This must be so hard for you. Are you around family & friends so you can have help & support when he's away?

  2. Grace

    cantaloupe / 6730 posts

    I'm so sorry! That would be so hard. Hugs.

  3. Smurfette

    GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts

    I am so sorry!! Thank you to him and your family for his service. I know it isn't easy.

  4. Mrs. Oatmeal

    blogger / honeydew / 7081 posts

    I'm so sorry. I can't imagine how tough this would be. Thinking of you.

  5. LindsayInNY

    bananas / 9229 posts

    ((hugs)) DH was in the Marine Corp Reserves. We met when he got back from Iraq so I didn't have to go through the deployment but it always weighed on me. The "what if". Thinking of you!!

  6. CupQuakeWalk

    coconut / 8475 posts

    thinking of you!

  7. pinkcupcake

    cantaloupe / 6751 posts

    I'm so sorry! This is so tough Hope you can lean on your friends and family for support while he's gone!

  8. Crisark

    pomegranate / 3398 posts

    I'm sorry
    I've been through it with my Ex DH and It's hard. I only had to deal with 6 months so you are way stronger than me.

  9. rattles

    grapefruit / 4903 posts

    Oh gosh, thank you for your sacrifices! I know you can do it, but we'll be thinking of you!

  10. StbHisMrs

    pomegranate / 3329 posts

    @MsLipGloss: I didn't think it was a good idea

    @snowjewelz: Sort of, my parents live 2 miles from us, but they put their home on the market and have interested parties. They're moving 6 hours away! I do have friends near though.

  11. snowjewelz

    wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts

    @StbHisMrs: Hmm. Would they re-consider selling w/ this new development? I am glad to hear you have friends around; I hope they will be a good and valuable support system for you! I hope he will be somewhere that you can stay more or less connected with your DH. I cannot imagine how difficult it is Maybe you guys can throw some early parties for the LOs so he doesn't have to "miss" the milestones? As long as they don't get too confused why they're having an early birthday... Or pick a day and celebrate Christmas

  12. marionberry

    pomelo / 5041 posts

    My ex was marine reserves and it was really hard just having him gone a few months. I can't imagine a year. Lean on family and keep busy. Hugs!

  13. MrsRcCar

    grapefruit / 4712 posts

    I am so sorry. HB is here for you!

  14. NovBaby1112

    grapefruit / 4066 posts

    big hugs mama, I'm so sorry

  15. maybebaby

    nectarine / 2177 posts

    I am so so sorry. You are so strong.

  16. StbHisMrs

    pomegranate / 3329 posts

    @snowjewelz: Nope, they won't. It's for the best, they're getting ready to retire.
    They actually have 2 people from out of state interested in it, they have a vineyard so it's more of a specialty niche. They don't want to have to go through another season. I told them if they sell and move I'm going with them Ha!

  17. edelweiss

    grapefruit / 4923 posts

    i'm sorry, that would make me really sad.

  18. snowjewelz

    wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts

    @StbHisMrs: You totally should if you can! Are you still WOH?

  19. StbHisMrs

    pomegranate / 3329 posts

    @snowjewelz: Yes, I'm still working but I think once he leaves I'm going to go pt and go back to school. My boss is retiring this year and I'm not going to stay in this field, because I'd be starting from the bottom up.

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