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What we did was slowly cut back on the night time feedings. Keep a log for a few days to see how much your LO is taking in at all feedings.
Start reducing the amount at the 2am then 11pm and finally your last feeding (as you drop feedings the times will kindof shift around).
I nurse at night so I would cut out 3min every three days. He eats more during the day and dropped two sessions on his own once they were about 5m long. This was all based on The Baby Sleep Solution book.

Good luck!

I've found the magic bedtime for us (7 months) is two hours after waking from the last nap. Yes sometimes that means 5:45 like today (crap naps). Your schedule otherwise looks good. Our LO wakes earlier if she is overtired. Feeding her at 4:30 or 5 has made a HUGE difference (oatmeal with avocado). We have gone from 1-2 am wake up to 4:30 or 5 am on the nights we feed her.
Maybe try the crib in your room, but moving it further away each night? I swear they smell us and it wakes the

I would tackle getting him to sleep drowsy but awake. Sounds like he has a sleep association. And I agree he probably doesn't need the 11pm feeding

You mentioned you're feeding him solids at 7pm and then putting him to bed at 8pm. I would personally move the solids earlier, like 5pm. If I eat a big meal right before bed, I have troubles sleeping, and babies can be the same way. I'd try seeing if feeding the solids earlier in the evening, and then offering formula/nurse closer to bed time helps.
weebeedreaming.com has some good tips to help with night time feeds It was my lifesaver with #1

@macintosh: There are lots of gentler techniques out there to facilitate the transition. But I think if you keep rocking or nursing him to a dead sleep, then transferring him, it'll get worse as he gets older. You can try just rocking or nursing him a little less every day so he's a little less asleep. When I started working on this with T, he mostly just whined and fussed for about 5-10 min. He never really cried for going down for the night. I also used a soother in his crib and I think the blue lights are soothing because often, I would turn it on and he would fall asleep to it (my first did this, too). Either way, realize you're on an unsustainable path, my friend! You need some rest!

He might need more day food, too? I know the one day DH missed one of T's bottles while I was gone, he was up a TON to nurse that night. The next day, I figured it out!

@macintosh: nights are easier than naps!

I'd also move the last feeding closer to bed time. He's going 6 hours between feeds that's about C's maximum right now too but is totally child-dependent. I put C down to bed at night and she fusses and whines but doesn't cry. I used to nurse to sleep but transfers were becoming so hard and I knew from my first that I needed to break that habit. J did not sleep through the night until almost a year and it took CIO to get there but it allowed us as parents to learn the difference between crying because he was annoyed and crying because he needs something heck as a toddler we still have nights where he needs to scream and let off some steam before he goes to bed, it was for a long time his only form of communication

@macintosh: My two cents from a 4 1/2 month old perspective... I would try adding more feeds in during the day - roughly every 3ish hours. That might help. When I was home, I tried a EASY sort of approach, feeding her after she woke up. Now with daycare, who knows... My LO goes to bed around 8:30ish, give or take. Just how it is. I pick her up at daycare around 6:30 and she gets a cat nap on the way home. Nothing I can do about that. So she sleeps roughly 8:30 to 6:30 each night. I would love for her to sleep longer but it just isn't possible. As for BFing, I nurse when we get home around 7ish and again to put her to sleep to "top" her off. Maybe try that before bed?