So I'm new to the whole pregnancy thing (5w4d today) and I'm trying to figure out all the OB visits. Since ours is an IVF baby, we will have our first u/s at the fertility clinic at 6w6d, I think just to confirm heartbeat and maybe do the EDD although that does always seem weird with IVF since we know when everything happened. Then I'll switch to my OB. When I called the OB, it was a whirlwind of scheduling and I'm still trying to understand all the appointments now.

1st OB appt: 8w3d just a sit down/intro with a nurse - no exam from what I understand.
2nd OB appt: 10w3d with the NP - not sure what we are doing this day (??), presumably an exam, maybe blood work??
3rd OB appt: 14w4d finally with OB - also not sure what we are doing this day (??)

Any thoughts on the timing of these appts? Can you help sort me out? I'm a little confused about when they might do the NT scan (if offered) since I think it would have to be at the second appt. But when I was scheduling things, the receptionist said if I had my 1st u/s at the fertility clinic, I wouldn't have one with the OB until ~20w (which I'm assuming would be the anatomy scan). I'm sure I'll have a lot of questions answered at my 1st OB appt, but I want to be prepared and that is still weeks away. Help (and thank you)!