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Our baby has spina bifida

  1. Ms. RV

    pear / 1930 posts

    So completely heartbreaking

  2. Mrsbells

    squash / 13199 posts

    @winniebee: So sorry to hear this and sending you hugs

  3. Pancakes

    nectarine / 2180 posts

    I've been thinking about you and your family all day, and I have no words for what you're going through. You and your family are in my prayers.

  4. Mrs.Someone

    pomelo / 5228 posts

    So sorry to hear this do what you feel is right for your family.

    Considering this and your loss history, I'd get tested for the MTHFR mutation, it may give you some answers.

  5. macintosh

    pear / 1750 posts

    Thinking of you

  6. Happygal

    pomelo / 5000 posts

    I am so, so sorry to hear you're processing this news. Much love to you and your family at this time.

  7. JoyfulKiwi

    nectarine / 2667 posts

    This is such devastating news. I'm so sorry your going through this. My heart goes out to you and your family, because either path will be a difficult journey. Whichever way you go, though, you will make it through and I hope you will find peace in the end. I hope you're able to get more information soon to make a choice. Like others said, whatever decision your family makes will be the right one and you've got a lot of women here who will support you.

  8. Mrs D

    grapefruit / 4545 posts

    Sending prayers and love your way.

  9. fuzzypeaches

    clementine / 950 posts

    I'm so sorry you have our support no matter what. Lots of prayers and virtual love to you and your family

  10. Winnie13

    kiwi / 501 posts

    I am so very sorry! I'm praying for you and your sweet baby boy! Praying for direction for your family and that you and DH have clarity while faced with some difficult decisions! Sending you so much love!

  11. LCTBQE

    nectarine / 2461 posts

    this is so shocking and devastating. I am so very, very sorry to read your post. like everyone has said, there's no right or wrong decision you could make. much love to you, I'll be thinking of you

  12. auggiefrog

    kiwi / 631 posts

    I'm so sorry hon.

  13. Mrs. Cookie

    blogger / persimmon / 1225 posts

    How unfair and awful. Prayers to you and your family.

  14. QBbride

    pomegranate / 3192 posts

    NO! My heart dropped when I saw this post. I'm so sorry you are being faced with this prognosis and are forced to make a difficult decision, one way or the other. Thinking of you and sending you love and light.

  15. T.H.O.U.

    wonderful clementine / 24134 posts

    So sorry to hear this and I hope you get more answers soon that lead to clear decisions.

  16. winniebee

    hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts

    We got into MFM late yesterday. The news was not good. Severe spina bifida with multiple brain abnormalities. We will say goodbye to our sweet baby boy via medical induction on Wednesday, at just over 18 weeks gestation. I keep waiting for someone to wake me up from this terrible, horrible nightmare.

    I'm sure giving birth and saying goodbye will be hell. But this baby is very much wanted and loved and we wanted him to leave the world in the most peaceful way possible.

    Thank you for all of your kind words and support. Reading through each comment has helped me so much during this awful time.

  17. Amorini

    persimmon / 1132 posts

    @winniebee: Calling all angels... My heart breaks for you. Thinking of you and your family and sending prayers, light and love. So, so sorry.

  18. Mrs. Pinky

    cherry / 120 posts

    @winniebee: so very sorry. Lots of prayers and love is being sent your way

  19. Ms maths

    apricot / 343 posts

    @winniebee: I'm glad you were able to get clearer answers quickly. I'm so sorry for this devastating news and wish you and your entire family peace as you move forward.

  20. LCTBQE

    nectarine / 2461 posts

    @winniebee: my eyes welled up with tears reading your update-- I can't think of anything harder or requiring more strength. hope you can find some peace soon.

  21. delight

    pomelo / 5326 posts

    @winniebee: I walled you. Please let me know if you need to talk. So much love to you and your family.

  22. Jess1483

    nectarine / 2641 posts

    I'm so sorry.

  23. Smurfette

    GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts

    Sending you the support and hugs I can. Will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.

  24. FaithFertility

    eggplant / 11861 posts

    @winniebee:

  25. Foodnerd81

    wonderful cherry / 21504 posts

    I am so sorry to read this update. I'll be thinking of you and your family.

  26. yellowbird

    honeydew / 7303 posts

    @winniebee: continually praying for you. I am so, so utterly sorry that you have to do this, but please take comfort that you are doing everything out of the most pure love. So many hugs

  27. Shantuck

    pear / 1767 posts

    @winniebee: I'm so very sorry you're going through this. I've been thinking about you constantly. You are a strong mama. Sending all of my love.

  28. stargal

    pomegranate / 3890 posts

    I a am so incredibly sorry.

  29. Hoots

    kiwi / 673 posts

    There are no words for this situation. I'm so very very sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  30. sslm

    cantaloupe / 6397 posts

    @winniebee: I'm so so sorry. What a nightmare.

  31. josina

    pomegranate / 3973 posts

    @winniebee: I'm soo soo sorry. There are no words.

  32. MamaG

    pomelo / 5298 posts

    @winniebee: I'm so sorry. I hope you continue to feel the love and support from all of us in the coming days.

  33. ChiCalGoBee

    nectarine / 2028 posts

    @winniebee: I am so, so, so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

  34. mfa_lady

    pomegranate / 3921 posts

    @winniebee:

    So much love to you and your family, mama. I am so sorry for your loss. Wish there was something I could do.

  35. macintosh

    pear / 1750 posts

    I'm so sad to read your update. I'm sorry. Wishing you strength and peace.

  36. GreenThumb

    pear / 1986 posts

    All of my love to you and your family. I am so sorry.

  37. MrsRcCar

    grapefruit / 4712 posts

    @winniebee: oh honey I had so hoped for better news. I will be keeping your family in my thoughts. I hope for nothing but peace for your family.

  38. Alba4

    nectarine / 2951 posts

    ❤️ Thinking of you.

  39. erinbaderin

    pomelo / 5573 posts

    This breaks my heart. I'm thinking of you, your family, and your sweet much loved boy.

  40. Canoli

    persimmon / 1458 posts

    @winniebee: tears filled my eyes reading this update as I can't imagine how difficult this is to go through. Thinking of you and your family as you embark on this difficult journey.

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