Anybody who knows me on here knows I get really bad migraines. When I was pregnant, they were even worse. I spent weeks just lying on the couch, I couldn't get up or do anything. I had to go to the er every other weekend because it just got too bad. At the time I wasn't working because we had a feeling that might happen, so I wanted to be prepared and take away migraine triggers like a stressful job.

I'm lucky to have family close by who can help me with LO. My mom is able to take off work whenever needed because she works for my dad, and she loves watching my LO. Which would be perfect if I wanted to get pregnant again...... but my SIL is having triplets, and they'll still be pretty tiny when we're planning on TTC again. So I know my mom will be busy helping them, and probably won't have as much time for my LO. DH's parents can help some, but they own a gym so they're pretty busy there, and I don't feel like I can count on them whenever I need them.

So we're thinking of postponing TTC. We think it might be easier if LO is a little older and more independent, plus by that time the triplets will be older so my mom might have more time for us. It just makes me really sad. Ever since LO was born I've been itching to have another one, and I really don't want to wait.

What would you do? Any advice?