My LO turns 6 months this week and everyone I talk to keeps asking me about having another kid.
Do you get this question a lot?!
My LO turns 6 months this week and everyone I talk to keeps asking me about having another kid.
Do you get this question a lot?!
GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts
I do. I'm honest about it... just because I'm not TTC any time soon. If I was, I would just lie and say we wanted to wait a little bit.
Personally, I think it's a very rude question and would never ask anyone it, so I don't feel bad lying about it if needed. After already having a miscarriage, I'm not comfortable with people knowing I'm TTC.
squash / 13199 posts
My LO is 2months old so no one has asked me about the next baby yet. I want her to be atleast 3years old before my 2nd baby is born
kiwi / 658 posts
yes i do. i think people just naturally ask that right after having a baby. it's like when you're dating they ask, "when are you getting married?" and after getting married they ask, "when do you plan to have kids?" etc etc etc... lol!
hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts
@kokobee: Serious, my LO was delivered by C-section at 4:50am and my MIL was in my recovery room at 6am...after one look at my LO she asked us to start planning the second one! LOL!
pomegranate / 3008 posts
I was still in the hospital after having my son when the questions about #2 started coming. I had my annual well woman appointment with by OB/GYN and was asked by everyone when we'd be having the next one. I honestly tell them we aren't and they keep shaking their heads and telling me we'll change our minds.
pomegranate / 3983 posts
All.the.time. It started when LO was about 8 months or so. My standard answer is "one at a time". I feel like it's ambiguous enough without being rude.
honeydew / 7504 posts
My answer to that is gong to be the same as my answer to "When are you having kids?" "When you stop asking."
pomelo / 5178 posts
I get that question all the time, but it doesn't bother me at all. Heck, I've even asked people if/when they were having another! I think I'm completely baby crazy.
pomelo / 5331 posts
We're still getting questions on our first one because we're not public yet. It's awkward, especially knowing what we know.
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